Aquarius Zodiac Sign

Independent and enigmatical, Aquarians are unique. There is no one quite like an Aquarius, and because each is so incredibly individual, it can be tough to describe them as a group. Aquarians don’t like labels, and may shy away from any adjective—even the good ones you might bestow upon them. Aquarians believe in the nature of change and evolution, and even though they’re a fixed sign, they may not necessarily believe they are the “same” people they were when they were born.

Aquarians have a strong sense of social justice and making the world a better place, and see themselves as just one link in an endless human chain. They are very concerned about others, not because of how others treat them or how they want others to treat them.

Aquarius Friendship Compatibility

Aquarius Friendship Style

Aquarius will always take the initiative to meet someone and hear their story. Aquarians love finding connections to other people, and never feel self-conscious or out of place, even in a group of strangers. Good listeners and natural questioners, Aquarians can draw out anyone, getting a new acquaintance to tell an Aquarian things they’ve barely told anyone else before. But there is another side: Aquarius can be very private, and people think they know an Aquarius much better than they do. Aquarius likes having a large social circle, but cultivating close friends takes time and trust. Aquarius takes disappointment in friendships seriously, and takes it hard—a cancelled coffee meet-up won’t make an Aquarius hold a grudge, but it will be a long time (if ever) they’ll invite you closer into their social circle. Aquarians see the best in people, but get frustrated if people don’t see those qualities in themselves. Aquarius sometimes feels like they always have to be the cheerleader and mentor for others, and sometimes crave another person to play that role in their lives. Aquarians are fun-loving, up for anything, and always feel that a friend is just a person you haven’t met yet.

Best Friend Match for Aquarius: Libra

Both air signs, Aquarius and Libra love seeking out cultural events, hitting up concerts, trading books, and spending all hours debating ideas. Aquarius can make Libra be a little less diplomatic; Libra can help Aquarius break down barriers and trust a little bit more. This friendship doesn’t always rely on words, Aquarius and Libra are happy to simply be together in silence. Aquarius and Libra don’t hold grudges and tend not to be petty; they know each person has a lot going on in their lives and are fine to not talk or text for weeks, then pick up right where they left off. With each other, Aquarius and Libra can let down their guard a bit. While both signs may not be known in the Zodiac for their sense of humor, when these two are together, they can laugh for hours. Their inside jokes, sense of adventure, belief in finding the extraordinary in everyday life and their sensitivity make these two Zodiac signs a perfect pair.

How to Make Friends with an Aquarius

Get below the surface. An Aquarius is always surrounded by people, and it’s easy to get caught up in the charismatic energy of an Aquarius. But to make friends with an Aquarius, you need to stick around for the long haul. An Aquarius rewards consistency; see them at the same yoga class or coffee place and they’ll slowly break down barriers. It’s easy to be casual friends with an Aquarius—be nice, have fun, make them laugh—but for deeper friendships, it’s important to scratch below the surface, and be patient if you’re initially rebuffed.

How to Stay Friends with an Aquarius

Be your best self. An Aquarius doesn’t have time for people who aren’t performing to the top of their potential. An Aquarius will forgive a missed birthday or a dropped text chain, but they want to see a friend who is genuine, authentic, and satisfied in their own life. Gossiping or hurtful behavior—even if not directed at an Aquarius—is hurtful and a turnoff to an Aquarius.

3 Reasons Why Taureans Make Great Friends

1. They’re fun. They’ll never say no to an idea, and when they’re at a party or event, they commit 100% of their energy to it.
2. They have amazing perspective. Aquarians are good at making connections between random things, and are the best at recommending the perfect podcast or movie for whatever issue you’re facing in your own life.
3. They push you. An Aquarius will check to make sure you hit your deadlines, scheduled that review with your boss, or updated your LinkedIn. They’re not doing this because they want to control you, but because they know that doing your best is what will make you happy.

Aquarius Love Compatibility

Aquarius Love Style

When it comes to love, Aquarius may march to the beat of their own drummer—the free-love era wasn’t named “The Age of Aquarius” for nothing. Aquarius doesn’t take a lot of stock in what “should” be done, but Aquarius has their own rules, codes of ethics, and morality and takes all three incredibly seriously.

Aquarius may be skittish when it comes to love. While they enjoy flirtatious relationships and can easily be in a longterm “friends with benefits” situation, love—even when they have deep feelings for the other person—can lead them to feel trapped or scared of the future. An Aquarius doesn’t want to depend on another person, and they don’t want someone else to depend on them. Trying to navigate healthy codependence in a relationship is a lifelong Aquarius challenge.

Aquarius is physically passionate, honest, and very in tune with their sexuality. An Aquarius may find sex connects them more deeply to themselves, as well as their partner, and believes that sex can exist outside of love.

An Aquarius cares deeply about their partner, but believes that love is not asking another person to put the other person’s needs ahead of their own. An Aquarius in love isn’t selfish, they’re pragmatic, and they’re doing what’s most honest for them.

Best Zodiac Love Matches for Aquarius

Gemini: These two air signs are intelligent, fun, and occasionally derided as quirky by other members of the Zodiac. This pair connects well on a physical level, while also giving each other the psychological space they sometimes need.

Aquarius: Fellow Aquarians respect and love what each other brings to the table. They don’t take the need for independence personally, understand that love may take time to build, and have a pretty amazing carnal connection.

Sagittarius: Fire sign Sag can add some heat to ethereal Aquarius, and may even make Aquarius commit to love. Both adventurers, both independent, and both very sure of what they want, Sags and Aquarians can bring out the best in each other—if they don’t drive each other crazy first.

Favorite Date Nights For Aquarius

Want to impress an Aquarius? Don’t bring them to the five-star restaurant everyone goes to, please. An Aquarius wants a unique date that isn’t about putting on a show. An Aquarius is much more touched if you remember her coffee order and swing by the place she’s volunteering than she is by someone who plunks down their credit card.

Many Aquarians cringe at the word “date,” feeling like the concept is too formal and antiquated. Instead, Aquarians find their partners through their friend groups. Being open, honest, and willing to play nicely with the friends an Aquarius already has means a lot. An Aquarius would rather have a casual one-hour long hangout before committing to a true date, and an Aquarius would ideally like to split the bill.

An Aquarius may seem go with the flow, but in the early days of romance, it’s best to follow their lead. Trying to fit an Aquarius into a “typical” date scenario will only turn into disaster.

The Deal with Aquarius and Earth Signs

It’s common for airy Aquarius to become downright obsessed (well, as obsessed as Aquarius gets) with earth signs—the exact element they shouldn’t go for. What’s the deal?

Earth signs (Capricorn, Taurus, Virgo) speak to the constant push-pull Aquarius has of wanting to settle and wanting to fly. Constantly flitting from idea to social circle to love interest is exhausting. Earth signs represent stability; an anchor in an unchanging world. It’s against the nature of an Aquarius, but it also can seem so very intriguing. So, can this match ever work?

In short, yes! The trick is for Aquarius to respect that they cannot—and should not—change the earth signs. In turn, an earth sign needs to give Aquarius space and independence. The two need to communicate, since both are literally coming from different worlds.

Both signs respect honesty, and having open conversations is key. Aquarius and earth signs also may try hard to cover their true feelings, so learning to be a little vulnerable with each other is also a key lesson for both parties. With time, patience, and a little bit of luck, this love match just may work.

How to seduce an Aquarius

For an Aquarius, little moves go a long way—and they’re always watching. Start with yourself. If there’s any self-improvement you’ve wanted to do, from reading a certain author to finally committing to running that marathon, get started now. An Aquarius is impressed by commitment, and leaving happy hour to get a 10-mile run in will go far in their book.

Aquarians are one of the friendliest signs in the Zodiac, and being nice is a huge factor in whether an Aquarius will be interested in taking things further with you. Being friendly to the Uber driver, getting to know people’s names, and saying something nice—instead of gossipy—about someone not in the room will also make you stand out to an Aquarius.

Finally, be real. An Aquarius doesn’t want someone who will throw themselves at their feet. An Aquarius wants to see someone happy and in love with their own life, and not see someone who needs another person to complete it. Here, some other strategies to impress an Aquarius.

Have a killer Spotify playlist: Aquarians love music, and they’ll be impressed with indie and obscure artists on your playlist—and yes, they are looking.

Volunteer for a cause: Big believers in social justice, Aquarius loves seeing their potential love interest try to make the world a better place. Just don’t try to volunteer with the same place your would-be Aquarius partner is volunteering, unless it’s a cause you care about. Aquarius can spot insincerity from a mile away, and it’s a huge turn-off to them.

Argue with them: Aquarians love opposing points of view, so having an opinion and backing it up is much more impressive than you agreeing with whatever they may think or say.

How to Make Love to an Aquarius

Aquarius has a reputation of being the free-spirit adventurer of the Zodiac, and while that may be true, an Aquarius won’t be impressed if you pull out all your bedroom tricks or toys on the first night. Aquarius is all about being in the moment and finding the right moves as a couple. For Aquarius, sex is give and take, and Aquarius believes in constructive pointers, suggestions, and adjustments to make the sex amazing.

Aquarius likes lights-on, clothes-off sex, and any body inhibitions by their partner can be a turn-off. Aquarius likes being praised for what they do well, likes conversation in the bedroom, and also loves fantasizing about what you might do next. Aquarius is just as turned on by mental games as physical ones; steamy texts can set the mood hours before you actually see each other in real life.

If You Love an Aquarius Woman

Understand she’s not contradictory, she’s evolving. Give her space to grow, and remember that her wanting to be alone or needing some space isn’t a rejection of you. An Aquarius woman wants her ideas heard. You don’t need to agree with her viewpoints, but you must respect her opinions.

An Aquarius woman has many friends, and she won’t ghost them just because she’s in a relationship. It can be a challenge to get on the calendar of an Aquarius woman, but don’t give up—it’s worth it.

An Aquarius woman doesn’t want a million texts from you. She cares about you and loves you, but also likes being in the moment with other people when she’s apart from you. For an Aquarius woman, space is one way to show love.

How to Communicate With an Aquarius Woman

An Aquarius woman loves thought experiments, and sometimes, deep conversations about love and life may not be about your relationship at all. Don’t assume anything, and know that an Aquarius sometimes needs to talk things out before she lands on her true beliefs. Give her space to speak.

Text can be annoying for Aquarius, who prefer IRL conversations. Aquarius can also be hard to pin down—try to have FaceTime sessions if you can’t see each other for a long period of time, since too much gets lost in translation over email. Aquarian women can feel pinned down by platitudes. Skip the “I love yous” in favor of more extensive communication on what’s going on with you to make you want to say that to her.

If You Love an Aquarius Man

An Aquarius man may seem afraid of commitment, but he’s not—he’s just selective, and honest in telling people that up front. Instead of trying to pin him down, give him space. Don’t play games, but be busy in your own life—he respects that, and nothing turns him on more than someone who seems happy and content exactly as they are.

An Aquarius man hates when a partner seems jealous, and an Aquarius man won’t drop his friends because he’s in a relationship. Understand that, and trust him. If you feel he’s too flirty with a certain person, it’s fine to point that out, but do so in a way that isn’t accusatory.

You may always wonder what an Aquarius man is thinking—and that will be true even if you’re with him for fifty years. Accept that there are some parts of him you may never reach, but it’s not personal—he likely hasn’t even fully explored those parts of his psyche himself.

How to Communicate With an Aquarius Man

Ditch the texts and be direct. Let him know what you want and what you’ll need, and he’ll honestly tell you if that’s something he can give you. An Aquarius man relies on you to be honest, and while he may be direct in return, he’s not doing so to hurt your feelings. Forget about playing games; they won’t be appreciated, and he will likely feel pinned down and trapped.

Should You Marry an Aquarius?

Yes! Intelligent, adventurous, and sensual, an Aquarius will always keep you on your toes. You will be learning about your Aquarius partner for the rest of your life, and an Aquarius will always push you to learn more, read more, and dig deeper into yourself. When you fall in love with an Aquarius, you fall in love with the searching, idealistic, sometimes moody side of yourself. It may not always be easy, but it will never be boring.

Signs That an Aquarius Is Playing for Keeps

Aquarius can seem stuck in the friend zone forever. They’re flirty, fun, and seem to act like a partner. You may even have a toothbrush at their place. But is it really the real thing? Here, three signs that an Aquarius is serious about a relationship.

1. They start texting in GIFs. Sure, for some, this is texting 101. But for Aquarians, who hate texting in the first place, taking the time to search for the perfect GIF to describe a situation is a sign you’re in their head.
2. They go to your roomie’s birthday dinner. Aquarians love a good party, but they’re not big on doing things just because they “should,” and feel awkward attending an event as a friend of a friend. But if they make a commitment to go to a party that’s more your thing, it’s a sign that you have become their thing.
3. They make a reservation. Aquarians aren’t really plan people, and the idea of a Friday night dinner at a restaurant with wine can make them feel eh. But they also understand how important formal dates can be to some, so if they make a reservation and take you out, it means a lot.

Aquarius Relationship Red Flags

Aquarius may always seem aloof, but subtle signs can show that a relationship with an Aquarius is heading south. An Aquarius is good at asking questions, but if you notice an Aquarius may not be forthright in answering the questions, or just may not be looping you in on the everyday happenings during their day, it’s a sign things could be wrong.

An Aquarius can always seem flirty, but they tend to do so out in the open. If an Aquarius seems secretive, or is peeling off from a group to talk one-on-one to someone, it also may be a sign something is up.

Finally, a happy Aquarius is an intellectually stimulated Aquarius. An Aquarius who’s loving life is always downloading new songs, reading new books, or asking your opinions on articles. If that stream of conversation has stopped, it may be a sign they’re not as happy as they were—or are getting feedback from someone else.

How Aquarius Deals With a Broken Heart

A broken heart hits an Aquarius hard. They don’t give their heart easily, so when they’ve fallen in love, they can feel vulnerable, wounded, and depressed when the love is no longer there. Not like they would let anyone know that. An Aquarius will lash out by pretending they didn’t care very much to begin with, even indulging in gossip, which is out of the ordinary for this sign.

An Aquarius may need some solo time to lick their wounds. An understanding friend to check in on them and pull them out of their funk is helpful. So, too, is making sure that there are plenty of parties available for an Aquarius to attend. They may not want to go, but getting the invites is a reminder they are still in demand.

The Aquarius Lifestyle

For the Aquarius in Your Life

Best gifts: A backpack or passport holder. Aquarians are minimalists and adventurers, so you want something that they’ll use.

Best spa package: A float tank session. Aquarians love trying new things, and feel like floating in a dark tank is a quiet way to unwind and finally hear themselves think.

Best cocktail: Margarita on the rocks, hold the salt. Aquarius is a purist, and doesn’t like when fancy purees or flavors mess with a classic.

How Aquarius Unwinds

Aquarius finds their escape in daydreaming. They don’t need a book or even music—although they may welcome it—and have a rich imaginative life when it’s just them and some time and space to lie down and relax. Aquarians love adventure and are never one to turn down an invite, especially to try something new, but they recharge during their solo time, and find that lying on the bed, with the breeze blowing in from the window, and staring at the ceiling is all they need to get to their happy place.

Aquarius’ Social Life

Aquarius has a huge group of friends—and even more people who want to be their friends. Aquarius doesn’t take stock in cliques or groups, and is the type to float between different social circles. While Aquarius can always find their place in a crowd, it can be tough to get into the inner circle of an Aquarius. Aquarius likes their privacy, and also doesn’t want to get too close to someone until they truly know they can trust them, inside and out. Aquarius also values their personal time and bristles at mandatory social engagements. When an Aquarius comes to your party, it means they want to be there. When they don’t come, don’t take it personally. It doesn’t mean they don’t like you, it just means that they only want to come when their energy is positive.

Aquarius’ Favorite Season

Aquarius thrives in the winter�it is there birthday season, after all—and finds the adage “there’s no bad weather, only bad clothing” perfectly reflects their view on life. They love bundling up in the cold, taking part in winter sports, and cozying up in front of the fire. They also know that beauty can be found even in the wettest sleet storm, and don’t feel like they need a warm summer day to put them in a good mood.

The Best Vacations for Aquarius

Aquarians love trying new things, so you’re unlikely to find an Aquarius at the same resort year after year. Aquarius likes sporty, active vacations, and are happy to go somewhere where their clothes and backpacks are going to get a little dirty. Aquarians won’t turn down a nice meal, but they’re happy buying food off the street or scouring the grocery store for the ingredients locals use. An Aquarius also uses their large social circle as impetus to visit far-flung friends around the globe.

Aquarius Power Colors

Air sign Aquarius is drawn to ethereal, light colors that speak to the way Aquarius can deftly go with the flow, handle ideas, and be able to shift direction based on new information. Here, the best colors for Aquarius.

Light blue: Like a brilliant blue sky, a light blue speaks to the beautiful soul of an Aquarius, as well as their connection to ideas, intellect, and the pursuit of a more perfect world.

White: Aquarius looks for the best in people, and is drawn to the color most often associated with innocence.

Yellow: Like the sun, yellow speaks to the eternal optimism of an Aquarius.

Violet: Connected to the crown chakra and representing spirituality, violet speaks to the vivid spirit of an Aquarius.

The colors that Aquarius should avoid are:

Green: This earth tone grounds an Aquarian too much; an Aquarian may put down roots, but is much more comfortable flying.

Red: Affiliated with the root chakra, red can be too passionate and intense for Aquarius, who like to be more cool-minded and analytical when it comes to any decision in their lives.

Orange: Affiliated with the sacral chakra, orange is similarly grounding and at odds with the ethereal personality of an Aquarius.

Aquarius Health & Wellness

Aquarius Ailments: Skip the stilettos! Ruled by the ankles and shins, Aquarians are prone to leg issues and injuries. Varicose veins and heart ailments may also become a problem down the line.

Aquarius Strengths: Aquarians believe in doctors, but also believe in new age practices. Their ability to believe, and ability to truly connect their mind and body, can be beneficial to healing.

Aquarius Weaknesses: Sometimes, Aquarians forget that health issues can truly have a physical reason behind it, and may try “wishing things well” instead of consulting with a doctor.

The Best Fitness Routines for Aquarians

Group training. Whether it’s training for a marathon or a triathlon, the social element will keep you coming back—and getting stronger.

About Those Aquarius Ankle Issues

Hey Water-Bearers, it’s time to talk about all that weight you’re carrying around. While you seem to let issues roll off your back, you sometimes let things—mental or physical—keep irritating you. This is especially true when it comes to physical issues. You’re a grin and bear it type of person, but sometimes, it’s okay to admit something hurts. You’re always the first to volunteer to lift the heaviest suitcase, to carry the biggest box, to never, ever give up. But your body has limits. Respecting your body and how much it can take will go a long way in making sure your body stays healthy for years to come.

The Top 10 Ways Aquarius Beats the Blues

Aquarius may seem optimistic, but little things can bring them down in the long run. Aquarians need to regularly tune into their emotional health to make sure they’re running at optimal speed. Here, some ways to make sure Water-Bearers feel good.

1. Get outside. It doesn’t matter if it’s raining. No matter the weather, Aquarians find balance in nature.
2. Book a trip. Exploratory Aquarians love adventures.
3. Take a group fitness class. Sweat and socialization makes for a happy Aquarius.
4. Get lost in a crowd. Sometimes, it’s better if an Aquarius doesn’t know anyone. Just being around people and getting lost in eavesdropping on other people’s conversation is enough to get Aquarius out of their own heads.
5. Listen to music. Whether it’s an old playlist or a newly reinvented one, listening to music can help de-stress an Aquarius.
6. Doodle. It doesn’t matter if the art is good or recognizable.
7. Take a nap. Sometimes, all you need is to daydream or dream everything away.
8. Try a flower tincture. Aquarians love new-age healing remedies, and gravitate toward herbal and flower remedies to fight the blues.
9. Make a difference. Whether it’s working in a volunteer capacity or signing a petition online, making the world a better place always puts an Aquarius in a better mood.
10. Meditate. It’s not easy for an Aquarius to sit still, but when they can, it’s magic.

Healing Herbs for Aquarius Moods

These are the best herbs for Aquarius to help ground Aquarius and connect them to themselves.

Comfrey: Used for sprains, strains, and wound care, this herb may help heal any Aquarius ankle accidents.

Valerian: This calming herb can (finally!) calm the racing mind of an Aquarius.

Violet: This anti-inflammatory herb can be a good antidote to the go-go-go lifestyle of an Aquarius.

Aquarius Spirituality

The Best Crystals for Aquarius: When conflicts arise, aquamarine can be used to strengthen your ideals of community and help enable you to practice forgiveness. At times when you feel hurt or betrayed by those close to you, yellow jasper can heal wounds that still burden your mind. Connecting to your birthstone, amethyst, at the end of this healing process can bring your mind, body, and spirit back into balance.

Aquarius Healing Mantra: “My higher plane is within my reach”

Aquarius Spirit Color: A sky blue reminds Aquarius to look up—physically and spiritually. Sunny, optimistic Aquarius can always find the blue sky of any situation, but they also are continually reminded to be able to connect to their higher, spiritual plane.

Aquarius’ Spiritual Side

Mystical, questioning, and seeking, Aquarians have a deep tradition of digging deep into the unknown. Unafraid to question authority, Aquarius may balk at traditional religion, only to find their own system of spirituality. They may also find comfort in the rituals of an organized tradition, and find that being a religious leader helps them find many of the answers they seek.

Aquarius has a strict moral code that may not be based on what society says one should do. Still, an Aquarius upholds this moral code highly and expects their close friends to do the same. An Aquarius hates social injustice, and looks for a spiritual path that will allow them to help others.

Aquarius is fiercely intelligent, and will likely have read different religious texts. They respect religious scholars who have deeply researched and truly believe, even if they, themselves, are skeptical. Aquarius may question authority, but they will respect when people have made the decision on how and what they will believe.

Aquarius believes in finding meaning, purpose, and who they are in the world and take this work seriously, even if the spiritual path they decide to take looks different than most.

Aquarius Karma Boosters

Every sign has to deal with unfinished business. For Aquarius, it’s learning how to balance their ideals and self-interests with those of others. Here, how Aquarius can focus less on trying to make people who they want them to be and more focus on who they are.

1. Make a one-on-one plan. Water bearers have a “the more, the merrier,” outlook on life, but they may be missing out on the intense convos that come from one on one time. Schedule time to go with a friend to coffee—and don’t invite anyone else!
2. Agree to disagree. When it comes to major differences of opinion, you want to be right. Agree to disagree, even if it’s over a major political difference.
3. Do something important to someone else. You prioritize your own stuff. No shame. But once in awhile, go to something you think sounds horrible—just because you know it’s important to someone else that you be there.
4. Reach out to someone from the past. Aquarius can be pretty forward-facing, but taking the time to look back and connect with someone you have happy memories with from the past can help ground you.
5. Let go. It’s not that Aquarians hold grudges, exactly, but they do remember a lot of disagreements and hurt feelings. Learn to let go!

Aquarius Career, Money & Success

Aquarius Career Mantra: “I can only control my own destiny.”

Aquarius greatest career strength: Unflappability. Aquarians can juggle a lot of balls, but they never seem stressed. They don’t feel stressed, either. By focusing on the here and now, Aquarius is good at tuning out any noise or self-doubt, and getting the job done.

Aquarius greatest career challenge: Bureaucracy. An Aquarius has a good idea of how things should be done, and could probably do them better than whatever current system is in place. Aquarius needs to learn to adapt to what the boss may want—even if it’s slower and more time consuming than what they might have done.

Aquarius Work Style

Relying on instinct, Aquarius has a good sense of how pieces of a project lay out. They know what they need to do, but they may have a hard time explaining their vision to others. Aquarius likes to follow their own internal clock and rhythm to get a job done. Sometimes, they might stay up all night, but sometimes, they want to work from nine to five.

An Aquarius goes with the flow when it comes to the structure of their work day, and does well working remotely or working for a company that looks at product over time spent at a desk.

Aquarius is a popular employee who knows how to get along with everyone. They may not like the political rules governing an office, but they can play to them almost effortlessly. They know that being nice at work makes the office more pleasant for everyone, and they take their work quality of life seriously.

Aquarius Dream Careers

Singer/songwriter/producer: Music-loving Aquarius finds success in this industry, whether it’s in front of the microphone or in the soundbooth.

HR manager: Friendly, efficient, with a way of drawing people out, Aquarius can easily suss out candidates for a job, and can entice them to work for a company.

Entrepreneur: Aquarius has a sense of what may be needed in the market, and has the patience and flexibility to carry it out. As an entrepreneur, they love being involved in every aspect of the work flow.

Product manager: Aquarius has an eye for detail as well as imagination. They work well at communicating with tech types, and can also merge tech specs with what an audience may need for an app or service.

Healer: Whether a therapist, acupuncturist, or reiki specialist, Aquarius has a good sense of how to help people, and can tune into whatever might be bothering them.

Aquarius and Money

Aquarius may feel “money doesn’t matter,” but that’s only because they’re good at making it. For Aquarius, money is a tool that can help them live a life they love—it’s not necessarily a power symbol, and more isn’t always better.

Aquarius believes that money can be a tool for good or evil, and is conscious of how their spending impacts the world at large. They may be especially interested in ethical purchases or ethical investing, and may be frustrated when people become consumed with the number on their paycheck.

Aquarius is good with numbers, and a quick mind and captivating imagination can make them savvy investors who may “see” trends in the market others can’t.

Aquarius believes money comes and goes, but relationships stay, and tend to make investing in relationships a priority over investing in their career or investing in the stock market.

If You Work for an Aquarius Boss

Your Aquarius boss may roll in on an electric scooter wearing flip-flops, but that doesn’t mean they’re not going to work hard—and demand the same from you. Aquarius bosses don’t necessarily “look” or “act” like a boss, but their perfectionistic standards can make the some of the toughest bosses in the business.

An Aquarius expects you to work hard, ask questions, be smart, and generally perform to the top of your intelligence. They’ll give you leeway, and aren’t watching the clock to make sure you show up at the stroke of nine. But they won’t accept half-hearted attempts, and will make it clear when you’re not performing up to their standards. That said, an Aquarius won’t let disappointment linger—a boss may criticize your work, but be happy to talk music at happy hour, and once you begin performing according to their expectations, they won’t hold onto their initial impression of you. Here, other Aquarius boss traits:

A team player. Even if the Aquarius boss has an office, they may be more likely to want to spend time in communal areas with their coworkers.

Imaginative. An Aquarius boss wants to hear the absurd idea you’re afraid to pitch. For an Aquarius, imagination breeds innovation.

Independent: An Aquarius boss likes doing the bulk of their work solo, and while they’re up for brainstorming sessions, they also prefer to do a lot of work (and get credit) alone.

Fun: If any boss is going to organize an indoor skydiving event for team-building purposes, it’s an Aquarius boss.

Energtic: A packed to-do list inspires an Aquarius, and they may expect their team to be equally energetic as they are. Once an Aquarius is done learning, they’re quickly ready to move on to a new job, and may be looking at their team for anyone who seems bored or listless in their job. Look busy!

What Success Means to an Aquarius

An Aquarius sees success as happiness, self-fulfillment, and a positive answer to the question, “did I make the world a better place?” An Aquarius doesn’t care so much about titles or paychecks, but understands that these things are important to society. An Aquarius also cares about work-life balance, and may take a lower-paying job if it means more time and flexibility to spend with a family or spend on hobbies or passions. For an Aquarius, “selling out” is the worst form of failure, and an Aquarius will do anything to avoid that happening.

Aquarius Parent & Child

The Best Toys for an Aquarius Child

Silk fairy wings, dress-up costumes, and plenty of musical instruments are all little Aquarians need to tap into their deep, rich imagination.

The Best Activities for an Aquarius Child

Aquarius kids are intelligent and imaginative, and love reading books and making art from an early age. They also love socializing, and are happy to spend time on playgrounds with little friends. Aquarius kids need downtime, too, though—making sure Aquarius kids have enough solo time to recharge, play by themselves, and allow their imagination to unfold outside of adult earshot is key for Aquarius kids to grow and thrive.

Books Every Aquarius Child Must Read

Imaginative, intelligent, and artistic, Aquarius children are drawn to stories featuring children who may live in different parts of the world. They love recognizing similarities and differences between their experiences and the experiences of others, imagining life in other countries, and recognizing their place in the worlds.

Dreamers, Yuyi Morales. This book, of an immigrant mother and child who find magic in their local library, will appeal to the Aquarius worldview.

Jumanji, Chris van Allsburg. This classic picture book turned movie explores the very thin line between imagination and reality, and lets an Aquarius imagine

The Best Names for an Aquarius Child

One of the most creative signs of the Zodiac, Aquarians are emotionally intelligent, intuitive, and endlessly creative. Choosing a creative name to match their personality is key—feel free to be playful with spellings, or even make something up!

Names for Aquarius Boys: Gender neutral names for Aquarian boys can work well. Think Amari, Gray, Rory, or Taylor. Or look to artists for inspiration. Some names to consider: Henri (Matisse), Mark (Rothko), Ansel (Adams), or Robert (Capa).

Names for Aquarius Girls: Female Aquarians see life as an endless art project; give your girl a creative name that will let her artistic soul shine. Some names to consider: Anais (after Anais Nin), Aria, Keats (after the poet John Keats), Magritte (after painter Rene Magritte), or Thisbe (from the Ovid myth).

How to Parent the Aquarius Child

Playful, friendly, intelligent, and fun, it may feel like your Aquarius kid doesn’t need that much parenting. They may seem “wise beyond their years,” and the way they easily adapt to different social situations can make it seem like they go with the flow.

And they do. But an Aquarius kid is very attuned to emotional imbalance, and while they may not voice their fears, they have a lot of existential worries about the world and their place in it. Finding time to go deep and talk about these things is helpful. It’s also helpful to be able to schedule plenty of time to just be with your Aquarius. They may seem gregarious, but you may notice it takes some time for your Aquarius kid to open up and actually talk about what may be bothering them.

Aquarius kids thrive in groups, and do well in packs of siblings. But they definitely need and want plenty of one on one time with mom and dad, too. Aquarius kids are seekers, and it may feel like they wake up with a whole new identity every morning. They don’t! They just are exploring different facets of who they are. Help encourage the exploration and don’t lock them into any roles. Reminders of how you’ll love them no matter what job they have or what they study is key.

Aquarius kids can have a lot to teach at a young age. Tune in, listen, and let your Aquarius kid lead you sometimes—just always remember that you’re the grown-up. Here, what else to consider as your parent your little water-bearer.

Be social. If you’re the mom or dad of a young Aquarian, get ready to have a full schedule of parties, playdates, games, and rehearsals. These boys and girls thrive on social interaction and tend to have lots of friends.

Keep them engaged. You’ll also need to be prepared to fuel their quick and mutable minds with plenty of mental stimulation.

Embrace their uniqueness. Just when you think you’ve got your Aquarian all figured out, they’re likely to have picked up some new quirky habit. Keep an open and accepting mind, and you’ll be just the support they need.

All About the Aquarius Teenager

An Aquarius teen is independent, unique, and may drive you crazy. They don’t mean to, but an Aquarius teen may be annoyed by what they see as you not living to your true self. For example, if you end up coming home late from work and complain about your boss, they may think you’re selling out by working at a job you dislike—not recognizing all the positive reasons you’re doing it, including a paycheck.

As a teen, Aquarius sees things as black and white, and it may be helpful for you to remind yourself that your job is partially to help them see the shades of grey that exist in the world we live in. That said, the idealism of an Aquarius shouldn’t be shrugged away. It may be good to help guide a young Aquarius to a volunteer opportunity or help them find ways to make a difference in their community. An Aquarius teen has a strong sense of social justice, and they also hate being talked down to. Learning from them will go a long way in showing that you respect them.

An Aquarius teen has a lot of friends and has a good head on their shoulders, but may need some rules and structure. Instead of making rules, have them collaborate on rules and guidelines that make sense to them—they will be more likely to follow those without getting frustrated. The more you respect an Aquarius teen’s autonomy, the more they will respect you.

An Aquarius Teen Likes

Learning: An Aquarius teen may bristle at the rigidity of school, but they love making connections, reading books, and figuring out new things.

Music: Music is life to an Aquarian teen, who finds songs can give a much more accurate representation of how they feel.

Their own autonomy: For an Aquarius teen, realizing they are different than their parents and have the power to make different food, religious, or style decisions than their parents is a heady thing. Encourage their experimentation and allow them to find their own path.

An Aquarius Teen’s Dislikes

“Because I said so.”: That is not a reason for an Aquarius teenager. Having a reason behind the rules makes them more likely to follow them.

Cliques. Aquarius teens have a lot of friends, but don’t like to align with a group, preferring to float between different people.

Privacy invasions. Aquarians can be messy, and you may think you’re just cleaning your water-bearer’s bedroom. They see a full-on invasion of privacy and will be annoyed that you stepped into their space without permission. Respect their boundaries (and their mess).

Aquarius as Parents

How does an Aquarius personality mesh (or clash) with their offspring’s? Here’s how any Aquarius can be an amazing parent to any kid in the zodiac:

Aquarius Parent, Aries Child

Aquarius and Aries are both artistic and imaginative, but Aquarian parents may be taken aback by the fiery temper their little Aries has—and may belittle their Aries mood swings. Learning to tune into their own emotions can help their little Aries adapt.

Aquarius Parent, Taurus Child

This air sign and earth sign can be a tricky combination, as little bulls can need a lot of structure, which doesn’t come naturally to Aquarius. The more both signs respect each other, the better this match will be.

Aquarius Parent, Gemini Child

Intelligent, imaginative, and independent, Aquarius and Gemini parents and children are great matches, but can sometimes get a little too friend-like. It’s important for Aquarius to remember that they’re the parent.

Aquarius Parent, Cancer Child

Sensitive baby crabs can pose a challenge to Aquarius, who may feel like their child is asking for more than they can give. The more they can tune into their own vulnerabilities, the more able they are to successfully parent a little crab.

Aquarius Parent, Leo Child

Little lions give Aquarius a run for their money—but while lions may have a loud roar, Aquarius is accepting of just how loud their little lion may be. This acceptance can help a little Leo gain confidence.

Aquarius Parent, Virgo Child

An Aquarius parent can sometimes feel disconnected from their Virgo child, and the best way to combine this air and earth sign is through art. Art is a medium both signs are equally comfortable in, and can help both communicate.

Aquarius Parent, Libra Child

These two air signs have a lot in common, but little Libras may be more sensitive than Aquarius parents recognize. Learning to go past an “everything’s fine” feeling and delve into somewhat uncomfortable emotions is helpful for both signs.

Aquarius Parent, Scorpio Child

Aquarius parents know that their little scorpions are very different than them. Scorpios thrive under this unconditional acceptance, and can learn how to let hurts and grievances roll off their back by watching their Aquarius parent go through life.

Aquarius Parent, Sagittarius Child

Adventurous explorers, both parent and child need a lot of alone time. But it’s up for Aquarius parents to bridge any gaps and recognize when it may be helpful to hold their little Archer’s hand.

Aquarius Parent, Capricorn Child

Aquarius parents sometimes wonder if the Capricorn kid is the real parent. Cap kids love structure, bedtimes, and neat playrooms. Aquarius parents? Not so much. Both signs can learn from each other, but Aquarius parents may need to be more rigid than usual with a Cap kid.

Aquarius Parent, Aquarius Child

These two signs together know each other—maybe a little too well. Aquarius parents may be hard on their Aquarius children because they’re hard on themselves. Cutting some slack is helpful for both of them.

Aquarius Parent, Pisces Child

Both imaginative and intuitive, Aquarius parents and Pisces kids love exploring life together. Water element Pisces may be more emotional than Aquarius realizes; recognizing this, and learning to think before they speak, can help ward off hurt feelings before they happen.