Libra Zodiac Sign

Intelligent, kind, and always willing to put others before themselves, Libras value harmony in all forms. Ruled by Venus, the planet of beauty, Libra adores a life that looks good. As the master of compromise and diplomacy, Libra is adept at seeing all points of view, and excels at crafting compromises and effecting mediation between others. This sign has a rich inner life yet loves other people, and they’re always happiest with a large group of friends, family, and coworkers on whom they can count.

An air sign, Libra can often be “up in the clouds,” and while he or she is amazing at making big plans, follow through can be tricky. Working with detail-oriented signs, like Virgos or Capricorns, can help Libras actually manifest their dreams into reality, especially in the workspace. But don’t call out Librans for daydreaming—their imagination is one of their biggest assets, and they often put their imagination to work by finding careers in the arts or in literature.

Libras believe that they’re directing their own lives, and they take a big-picture approach in making that life look and feel the best it can be. They spend a lot of time figuring out what’s missing from that big picture, and they may feel unhappy if they become too focused on one thing, whether it’s work, a partner, or a family member. Librans are at their best when they balance their schedule to include plenty of time for self-care rituals and personal pursuits, and when they give themselves enough flexibility to change focus.

When Libra falls in love, he or she falls hard, but this sign also recognizes that there’s room for more than one grand love in his or her life. The Scales are pragmatic about love, realizing that different relationships often have different seasons. Librans can sometimes be accused of being too pragmatic, and they’ve been known to call off a relationship pre-emptively if they feel it may not work due to distance, age difference, or another external conflict.

Although Libra appears self-confident to outsiders, he or she might struggle with insecurity, especially as it relates to personal identity, which sometimes feels mutable. This sign’s lifelong question is: “Who am I?” They may find their identity shifting based on where they are in their lives and who they’re spending time with. In order to feel more confident in their identity, social Libras need to get comfortable spending time with themselves and getting to know their gut and their internal voice.

Libra is fiercely attracted to intelligence, which is just as important as appearance when it comes to the partners they end up falling for. This sign is all about cerebral connections—role-playing, dirty talk, and games in the bedroom all serve to amp up their interest. Physical connection is nice, but a sexy Snap can truly crank up a Libra’s libido.

Libra’s Motto

“No person is an island.”

Libras are amazing! Their name says it all:

L for loyal
I for inquisitive
B for balanced
R for responsible
A for altruistic

Libra’s Greatest Gifts

Libra’s everyday vibe is this gentle reminder: “Let’s just all get along.” For this sign, compromise is key. Librans don’t do well when anyone in their orbit isn’t happy, and they’re especially adept at inviting other signs to see things from a different perspective. A Libra doesn’t strong arm or use coercion, but rather relies on his or her communication prowess to help everyone see another side to a story.

Libra’s Greatest Challenges

Libra is great at making everyone happy—but what good is that if Libras themselves don’t feel fulfilled? While the Scales have a fine-tuned internal compass, they sometimes ignore what they want in favor of what makes everyone else happy—and this habit ends up backfiring in the long run.

Libra’s Secret Weapon

This sign has weaponized their imagination in the service of good. Librans’ imagination is unmatched, and they can always come up with a new way of looking at an issue. Libra is also blessed with boundless creativity. Even if they’re working in a data-dominated field, their creativity shows them novel ways to see things.

The 5 Top Reasons to Love Being a Libra

1. You make others feel comfortable. People love being around you, and you love them, too. A room full of people is your happy place.
2. Your eye is unmatched. You see color combinations, patterns, and art where other people can’t, and your creative gifts pay off in big ways.
3. You’re a master communicator. You don’t stress about having a difficult conversation, and although you don’t try to smooth talk, you get deals and bargains wherever you go simply because reason and charm are your MO.
4. You aren’t afraid to try something new. You know nothing is permanent, which makes starting something new—whether moving house, falling in love, or entering a new profession—incredibly exciting.
5. You’re never lonely. Your mind is an endless source of inspiration, and you can always keep yourself entertained—even if your smartphone is nowhere in sight.

Classic (Famous) Libras

Matt Damon, Marion Cotillard, Hugh Jackman, Gwyneth Paltrow, Kim Kardashian, Bruno Mars, Lil Wayne, Bella Thorne, Nick Cannon, Halsey, Will Smith, Candice Swanepoel, Kate Winslet

Libra Friendship Compatibility

Libra’s Friendship Style

Thanks to this sign’s quick smile, sharp wit, and ability to make anyone feel like the most important person in the room, people are often surprised to find that the Libra they consider a “best friend” has about ten “best friends” just like them. Libras are adept at connecting to others quickly and love getting to know people. They also love socializing, entertaining, connecting friends to each other, and of course having parties and get-togethers. Libra also has a penchant for the spotlight and loves that bringing friends together for an event can help him or her shine, too.

But even though Librans have dozens of friends from all areas of their lives, they sometimes have trouble connecting on a deeper level. Part of this is because Libra doesn’t like feeling beholden to others and finds the intense emotional demands of deep friendships stifling. He or she prefers to flit, unencumbered, between different friends. This sign is also averse to conflict and finds it tough to be honest if they disagree with someone. They prefer to pull back. But when Libras do make a close friend, they keep that friend for life. They’re not judgmental about others, collecting a diverse set of friends from different life circumstances and situations. For a Libra, there’s always room for one more.

Best Friend Match for Libra: Gemini

Quick-witted, fun, and always up for a gossip session, Gemini keep Librans on their toes, make them think, and inspire them to go on big adventures. Gemini won’t take “I don’t know” for an answer, and has the patience and fortitude to help Libra make a decision. Alternatively, Gemini are happy in the driver’s seat, showing Libra that life can be just as much fun (if not more so) when Plan A doesn’t work out.

Gemini aren’t afraid to make their voices heard, and they coach Libra to speak up, too—which isn’t necessarily an easy feat for the Scales. Both signs love socializing, both believe in making new friends whenever possible, and both thrive at epic parties and hangouts. They cherish their friendship without considering it “exclusive,” thereby avoiding the drama that might plague other “best friendships.” The signs adore and bring out the best in each other.

How to Make Friends with a Libra

Ask questions. A Libra loves getting to know others and might grill you like a reporter, but don’t forget that he or she likes the spotlight, too. Getting to know Libras, complimenting them, and making them feel special will motivate them to include you in their social circle.

How to Stay Friends with a Libra

Don’t push. A Libra may seem to be close with you—exchanging regular texts, inviting you to gatherings, and sharing a funny story—but this sign might not want the friendship to go to the next level, and they may pull back if you start seeming too emotionally dependent.

3 Reasons Why Libra Make Great Friends

1. Always in the know, Libras love inviting you to parties, fixing you up with their friends, and making your social circle bigger, brighter, and sparklier than ever before.
2. With an encyclopedic knowledge of nearly everything, Libra can always tell you where to find the best coffee and the best sales, and can give you an entertaining and on-point summary of the news far better than any talk radio could.
3. A problem solver by nature, Libra loves talking through thorny issues, and always has great perspective on interpersonal problems.

Libra Love Compatibility

Libra’s Love Style

Libra adores flirting, loves the drama and pageantry of romance, and is one of the few signs of the Zodiac that actually enjoys first dates. While Libras excel at charming potential partners, they have difficulty figuring out what they want, and all too often can get lost in the twists and turns of a relationship. Because of this, a Libra will sometimes hold back on falling in love, worried that partnership equals loss of self. Libra’s partner has to be understanding if this sign seems to pull back. They should allow Libra the time and space to explore partnership on his or her own terms.

While pragmatic Libras love romance, they’re unlikely to rush into something. Instead, their rational side will weigh pros and cons, often thinking years into the future. A Libra will absolutely talk about future children, including what schools those kids-to-be will attend, and find these conversations with partners invaluable in helping to shape a rich life together.

Librans want to please their partner, which can result in misunderstandings. Because this sign hates conflict, they may want their partner to always plan date nights. They certainly have ideas, but they’re sensitive to criticism and worried that their partner may not enjoy what they’ve picked out. It’s important for Libra to become an equal partner and realize that he or she isn’t solely responsible for the other person’s happiness (or lack thereof).

A Libra hates conflict. Shouting and accusations frighten them. By sticking with “I feel” messages and making sure that your Libra feels loved even though you’re angry right now, you’ll go a long way toward making him or her feel safe about sharing feelings.

A passionate sign, Libra needs physical and mental turn-ons. They love the slow burn of sexy back-and-forth texting and have an especially rich fantasy life. Tuning into that via role-play, dirty talk, and BDSM-style exploration can go a long way in keeping your Libra feeling hot, hot, hot.

Best Zodiac Love Matches for Libra

Leo: Fiery Leo falls hard for Libra, and Libra loves how Lions wear their heart on their sleeve. The two signs have an instant carnal connection, and Leo can help Libra take risks—including falling in love.

Aquarius: Adventurous and independent, Aquarius and Libra both get into a relationship with each other precisely because they don’t “need” a partner—until they meet, spend time together, and discover that they can’t live apart. Aquarius and Libra won’t try to change each other. Instead, they’re inspired by each other’s different ways of approaching life.

Sagittarius: Adventurous Archers entrance Libra because they don’t worry about what other people think. By example, Libra learns how to stop being so indecisive, and also learns that passionate debates (okay, arguments) don’t signify the end of a relationship. Sag can teach Libra how to fight, and the makeup sex is phenomenal.

Favorite Date Nights for Libra

For all Libra’s love of comfort, coziness, and Saturdays spent under the covers, potential paramours who think that the Scales’ ideal date night is Netflix and chill are mistaken. Libra also adores going out on the town, and loves getting reservations at exclusive restaurants and wine bars. They relish the anticipation for a good night out, and also being in the know about which cool new things or experiences to sample. Of course, after all that, cuddling on the couch is a great follow-up. And although Libras sometimes play coy, they also adore PDA. They’re proud of their partner and like showing them off to anyone who might be watching.

The Deal with Libra and Fire Signs

Libra tries hard not to seem ruffled and to get along with everybody. But this air sign tend to fall for fire signs (Aries, Leo, and Sagittarius), the Zodiacal provocateurs who can make them raise their voice, get mad, and even throw things. So what’s the deal? Why does balanced Libra do that?

Part of the reason is that they’re drawn to the drama. After all, they spend all their days playing peacekeeper and mediator, and passionate fire signs push them to their edge and give them the freedom and implicit okay to finally say exactly what’s on their mind. They also love the impulsiveness of fire signs, yet they also feel that fire signs can help them look before they leap.

Fire signs and Libra also understand each other. Pragmatic Libra understands that sometimes relationships just don’t work out, while passionate fire signs know that the likelihood of remaining in one relationship forever can be unrealistic. Because Libra and fire signs expect an end date, they’re more honest with each other and might actually end up being together forever, simply because they realize that there’s nowhere else they’d rather be.

But even if the relationship doesn’t work out, Libra loves a challenge and will always find one with intense fire signs. There’s little regret about these relationships because they teach Libra something new—and help this sign find his or her voice.

How to Seduce a Libra

Have your eye on a Libra? Well, so does everyone else, so get in line! Even though Librans can present themselves as low-key, they’re always aware of who’s watching them, and tend to orchestrate events so they’re in the spotlight. Knowing this about Libras—their elaborate efforts to make things seem effortless—can be key to capturing their heart. Noticing them, lavishly praising them, and making them feel like they’re the most important and attractive person in the room will go a long way to win their hearts. Here are some other ways to win a Libra’s heart:

Be independent. Libra is drawn to the people who play hard to get. Having your own thing going on, or subtly jockeying for your own spotlight, can only impress them. And doing it at their party? Why, the sheer, sexy nerve of you! Play bartender and make up a cocktail for them—they’ll adore your confidence.

Be funny. Librans loves to laugh because it’s one of the few times that they can let their guard down. Telling them stories—especially self-deprecating anecdotes where the joke’s on you—shows that you have confidence.

Force them to decide. While a Libra often demurs on making decisions, trust that he or she does have opinions (sometimes very strong ones). Letting Libras decide what to do—and praising their choices—will give them the confidence to tell you exactly what they think.

How to Make Love to a Libra

Start slow, and start early. Begin by telling them via text just how much you miss their body, and then tell them exactly what you plan to do with it. When you’re finally face to face, keep those carnal compliments coming. Spend a lot of time on kissing—it’s one of Libra’s favorite ways to communicate.

When it comes to the main event, Libras love you to take charge. Dominant positions, like doggie style, are especially popular with this sign. They love being able to fully let their bodies go and enjoy the physical sensations. But it’s equally important to trade places: Doing role-play and letting them take the lead can help you tune into what they like, and can also free them to tell you what they truly need from you, both in and out of the bedroom.

If You Love a Libra Woman

Give her space. A Libra sometimes needs solo time to figure out what she thinks, and pressuring her about it can make her feel resentful. Even if you want to talk about a relationship issue, it’s likely to backfire if she’s not ready for that conversation. Let her come to you, and she’ll appreciate that you gave her time and space to formulate her thoughts. She’ll also be more open about what’s really on her mind.

How to Communicate With a Libra Woman

Appreciate the in-betweens. When a Libra woman says, “I don’t know,” she’s not being coy—she truly doesn’t know, and doesn’t want to take sides on an issue until she knows where she stands. Realize that different perspectives exist, and consider trying on another one for size. You’re not changing your mind—looking at an issue from another viewpoint is key to understanding the Libra worldview.

If You Love a Libra Man

Let him flirt. Innately flirtatious, Libra has used charm throughout his life—but that doesn’t mean he’ll cheat. Libras are loyal, and a Libra man who feels like he has to second-guess his interactions with others will get resentful, and may end up hiding things from you. In other words, being suspicious of a Libra man will backfire.

How to Communicate With a Libra Man

Don’t put words in his mouth. A Libra man hates when someone else tries to tell him what he’s thinking or feeling. Listen to him, ask open-ended questions, and realize that even if you don’t understand or agree with his point, it’s still valid. Questioning his rationality, intelligence, or meaning will only lead to more communication issues.

Should You Marry a Libra?

Yes! While a Libra may drive you crazy with his or her indecision, fear of commitment, and almost allergic reaction to arguments, this sign is intelligent, intense, and committed to creating a happy home and life for the two of you. Once Libras decide that you’re their partner, they see everything through the lens of “us,” and will ensure that the lifelong decisions you make will benefit both of you. Libra guarantees that, together, you’re both stronger and happier than you’d ever be on your own.

3 Signs That Libra is Playing for Keeps

Libras don’t wear their heart on their sleeve, and they may seem to say one thing and do another—which can drive you crazy. But looking past the words and into the actions behind them is key for sussing out whether your Libra sees you as long-term relationship material. Here’s how you can tell:

1. They invite you to their house. It may sound minor, but Libras’ home is their haven, and they’re very careful about the energy they let in. If they invite you in (just you, and not with a bunch of party guests), it’s a sign they trust you.
2. They tell you that they don’t like something. Sure, it’s ego bruising to hear that they’d have preferred a different gift than the one you gave, but it’s actually a promising sign. Libras will bend over backward to make others happy, but when they’re honest with you, it means that they realize you’re interested in their happiness, too.
3. They invite you into their routine. Whether it’s bringing you to their yoga class or inviting you to make dinner with them on a random weeknight, getting to see the low-key, non-glam side of Libra’s life is a sign that they can see a future with you.

Libra Relationship Red Flags

A Libra may not tell you if anything’s wrong—but if you hear that there’s trouble in paradise from his or her friend, pay attention. While Librans will try hard to spare your feelings, they sometimes can’t help dishing about the real story to someone they trust. Once they start taking behind your back, it’s a sign something is wrong.

Libras have a million friends, but once they’re in a relationship, they want you to be part of that crowd. If they seem cagey about inviting you to hang out with their friends, it could be a sign they’re second-guessing how you fit into their life.

Finally, Libra won’t start an argument, but he or she may be more passive-aggressive than usual. That might look like saying that everything’s fine or deliberately bringing up sensitive topics around you—just to get a reaction or goad you into starting the fight.

How Libra Deals With a Broken Heart

Libra wants to stop the hurt fast. He or she may justify the breakup or broken heart by explaining to anyone who will listen why it never would have worked anyway. For a follow-up, Librans have been known to badmouth or mock their former partner to somehow mitigate the hurt. But this is a sign who badly wants things to work, so they’ll quietly do the detective work to figure out what went wrong, combing over every email, text, or social media post as if they could pinpoint exactly what happened. In order to get over a broken heart, a Libra needs time, attention, and plenty of ice cream. Taking Libras out for drinks or dinner and inviting them to parties reminds them they have plenty of people in their corner.

The Libra Lifestyle

For the Libra in Your Life

Best gifts: A cozy throw, comfy PJs, or slippers. Libra loves the Scandinavian concept of hygge, which means making the environment around them as cozy (and let’s face it, as womblike) as possible.

Best spa package: A hot wrap body treatment. Libra loves feeling cocooned from head to foot with amazingly decadent lotions.

Best Cocktail: A mulled wine or hot toddy. A warm cocktail makes comfort-seeking Libra feel cozy and cared for like nothing else.

How Libra Unwinds

Sometimes, Libra finds time alone disorienting, even though there’s nothing that he or she needs more than tuning back into his or her deepest, most real self. That’s why Librans loves finding activities where they can be alone—but in a crowd of people. Of course, yoga classes are a natural for balance-seeking Libra. Other ways to unwind include writing, drawing, or doodling at a cozy cafe; joining a group hike; or a long catnap under the covers.

Libra’s Social Life

A Libra loves socializing, and sees “social life” as interchangeable with “real life.” Part of the meaning and joy that they find in their work is creating connections with coworkers, and this sign is often found helming the office social strategy. Libras are known for their “the more, the merrier” mentality, and they love connecting diverse groups of friends and family. They’ll always say yes to an invitation, but they may spread themselves too thin. And while Libras might collect a large group of friendly acquaintances in their life, they may find it harder to cultivate true friends.

This is partly because Librans hate conflict and may distance themselves from people at the first sign of friction. By learning that good friendships often become great because the relationship has weathered some sort of interpersonal storm, Libra can create a richer circle of friends. At the end of the day, this sign relishes a packed social schedule, always wants to have something on the calendar, and genuinely enjoys a party, even if they don’t know very many (or anyone!) there.

Libra Health & Wellness

Libra’s Ailments: Back pain
Libra’s Strengths: Visualization
Libra’s Weaknesses: Short-term fixes. From downing caffeine-laden drinks to eating a ton of sugar, Libra often seeks energy in external, unhealthy ways, only to crash hard later.

The Best Fitness Routines for Libra

Tennis, volleyball, adult soccer—Libra loves workout routines that are just as fun as they are calorie scorching. A Libra doesn’t like to sweat it out solo at the gym. For this sign, the more, the merrier.

About Those Libra Back Aches

This air sign rules the kidneys, ovaries, and lower back, making cramps common. Libras frequently finds themselves battling a vague ache in their lower back. This could be partly psychosomatic, the consequence of sitting in one place for too long, which is something that Libra often does on a psychic level. Because Librans so torn between decisions, they often end up doing nothing, “sitting” on any possibility—which manifests in an achy back.

While alternative medicine treatments (including massage, acupuncture, and cupping) can be helpful, Libras should consider their back twinge as a prompt to just make a move. It doesn’t matter if it’s the “right” move—after a certain point, any move is better than sitting still. A Libra can also head to the gym and get moving in fun ways. Running, jumping, or joining a sports team can remind this sign that motion is positive, which can manifest in the way that they conduct their decision process.

The Top 10 Ways Libra Can Beat the Blues

A bad mood can really bring Libras down, mostly because they tend to focus on the glass as half empty. While distractions can help, Libra also needs to feel the feelings and find solutions on his or her own terms to get past the bad mood. Here are ten ways to jumpstart the process:

1. Take a shower. Luxury-loving Libra finds that a shower with all the aromatherapy, lotions, and scrubs can make him or her feel a little better. When Librans look good, they feel good—or at least better.
2. Have a party. They can tell it like it is and call it a “pity party.” Libras love finding things to celebrate—even bad moods—and inviting people to commiserate with them over a bottle or two of wine can remind them of all the good stuff that they’ve got going for them.
3. Listen to opera. The Scales love music and may find that the florid drama of classic opera to best suit their mood. Those piercing arias and booming anvil choruses can actually help lift their spirits.
4. Do Yoga. Libras crave balance, which is what yoga is all about. Stretching out and doing some asanas will center them like few other things can.
5. Rearrange the decor. Design-focused Libras love feeling like their home is their hideaway, and losing themselves in an interior design project can help them forget their mood.
6. Update social media. For Libra, image can be everything, and crafting a social media post that looks good—even if confusion reigns IRL—can make him or her feel in control.
7. Talk it out. Even if they’re just talking to themselves, actually saying the words out loud can help Librans untangle a problem and figure out the best fix.
8. Put on PJs. Yes, image matters to this sign, and they’ll often dress up even when they’re home alone. But putting on super soft, comfy pajamas is a powerful act of self-care that can remind Libra of how much he or she matters.
9. Talk to a stranger. Whether it’s the barista at the café or someone in line at the grocery store, striking up a conversation with a stranger invigorates Libra.
10. Find a mantra. Libra finds power in words, and looking through quote books or poems for the words to match his or her feelings can be a powerful step in moving on.

Healing Herbs for Libra

Catnip: Just as it energizes kittens to play for hours, this herb, in either a tea or aromatherapy, can crank up Libra’s energy while reducing anxiety and restlessness.

Elderberry: Brewed in a tea, this antioxidant can bring out Libra’s natural beauty, especially in calming down skin.

Bergamot: Diffused as an essential oil, this herb can help sweep away Libra’s tension and anxiety.

St. John’s Wort: As a supplement or in a tea, St. John’s wort can help with those minor aches, pains, and back twinges that Libra sometimes experiences.

Libra Spirituality

The Best Crystals for Libra: Citrine. This sunny stone can balance Libra’s competing energies and help him or her arrive at a decision.

Libra’s Healing Mantra: “What will be will be.”

Libra’s Spirit Color: Blue. As an air sign, Libra is drawn to the cerulean color of the sky, a reminder to always think higher.

Libra’s Spiritual Side

Librans can feel overwhelmed by the conflict raging all around them, and they often find uncomfortable interpersonal issues even in places of spiritual sanctuary. This sign always has a deep sense of their spirit and what it needs, but those needs are all too often drowned out in the everyday noise of modern life. That’s ironic, because the busier Libras are, the more they need spirituality, but the less likely they’ll give themselves permission to find it.

A Libra finds spirituality everywhere and may feel profound connections with nature. They also find spirituality in their nearly sacred bonds with friends and family, and they consider relationships one of their most powerful ways of connecting with and honoring their higher power.

It’s not uncommon for Libras to explore different religions, even changing spiritual practices at some point in their lives. While others may call Libra indecisive, this sign will say that’s a mark of their spiritual centeredness—they’re willing to move toward something that feels like a better fit for them.

A Libra also finds his or her spiritual center in other practices, such as yoga, meditation, or reiki; is always willing to try something at least once (preferably more than once); and will never write off a belief or practice until they’ve experienced it firsthand.

Libra’s Karma Boosters

Every sign has unfinished business to deal with. For Libra, this means letting go of indecisiveness, getting over a fear of what others think, and letting his or her inner voice and gut take the lead. These lessons take a lifetime, but here are some ways to begin:

1. Go with the gut. Librans love getting insight from others, but that can sometimes sway them from what they actually need. This sign should try doing something without any outside input.
2. Order first. Libras always order last in restaurants, because they like seeing what other people at the table are getting so that they can change their mind. For once, they should order first and stick to it.
3. Stop gossiping. Sometimes the even-tempered Scales get annoyed. Why not? Libra is human, too! But this sign tends to whisper behind the backs of those who annoy them. Talking it out face to face with the main offender keeps the situation from getting worse.
4. Live in the moment. Libra has a tendency to think in the future. While daydreaming is fun, it can stop this sign from living a really awesome right now.
5. Hang out solo. That means Libra and only Libra. Getting all introspective in a roomful of people doesn’t count.

Libra Career, Money & Success

Libra’s Career Mantra: “If I can dream it, I can achieve it.”

Libra’s greatest career strength: Imagination. For a Libra, work can be a playground. If this sign works with a great team and on projects they believe in, their job is fun. Librans love dreaming up new projects to accomplish and challenges to meet.

Libra’s greatest career challenge: Standing up for themselves. While Libra’s a master negotiator, he or she hates making anyone else feel bad or uncomfortable. That means swallowing hard truths or withholding constructive feedback from team members.

Libra’s Work Style

Libras think of their coworkers as friends, and they thrive in a low-drama atmosphere where they can trust and have fun with colleagues. This can be tough in more buttoned-up environments, so Libra can have a tough time navigating boundaries between coworkers or especially the people he or she manages. While this sign avoids workplace drama, they love talking about it, and consider every day their own personal soap opera.

Creative Libras always try to make their job fun, and they’ll sometimes find projects to do on their own if they’re not feeling challenged enough. They bristle at rigidity, preferring to find their own way through their workload. For Libras, the big picture is far more important than the details, which means that they might lose steam halfway through a project—especially without a team member to hold them accountable and cheer them on.

A Libra is drawn to careers that allow creative self-expression. He or she won’t shy away from the spotlight and enjoys the perks of senior job title. The Scales will work hard on the job, and also to ensure that their team is happy. This may backfire for Libras in management if they take on someone else’s work to be helpful—they might end up hurting themselves.

Libra’s Dream Careers

Libras are cooperative and diplomatic. Though well-liked and popular, they can be somewhat aloof. A peaceful and beautiful environment is important to them, and they work toward creating harmony. Libras aren’t temperamentally suited to jobs that are risky or messy. They prefer a career that allows them the opportunity to create and to bring opposing things into balance. They’re known for elegance, refinement, and diplomacy in the workplace.

Here are a few careers best suited to Libra:

Music Industry Insider: Whether it’s doing PR, working at a record label, or even being a performing artist, musical Libras love being connected to the arts, and are especially drawn to (and talented at) music.

Psychologist: Libra is adept at getting what makes people tick. He or she is empathetic and loves listening to others. This diplomatic sign particularly thrives as a mediator or couples’ counselor, and finds fulfillment in helping others through dark moments in their lives.

Hospitality Exec: Luxury-loving Libras are all about travel, new experiences, and sweet spots to relax, which is why they’re ideal at working at a hotel or for a hotel chain, where they can mastermind people’s dream vacation experience.

Advertising Exec: Tuned into the trends that are barely on anyone else’s radar, Libra knows what people want—often before they want it.

Writer: Libras are especially talented at putting their inner thoughts on paper. They sometimes find writing a lot easier than speaking.

Libra and Money

While Libras love a paycheck, they sometimes have a hard time connecting their skills to making money. After all, a Libra often sees work as fun, so it can be tough for him or her to negotiate for a larger salary. This sign may be uncomfortable talking about the socially iffy topic of money, and they may have an exceptionally hard time bargaining or taking an active role in their money management. Luckily, Librans’ innate smarts, resourcefulness, and charm keep the paychecks coming, and their love of luxury can help motivate them to speak up and ask for what they’re worth.

If You Work for a Libra Boss

A Libra boss is friendly, but may not give you the straight story about what he or she thinks of your performance. You need to suss out the small behavioral tells that will let you know if they really think you’re doing a good job. While a Libra boss may appreciate your company, he or she may be frustrated by your lack of attention to detail, so you can’t assume that you walk on water just because the boss shares anecdotes from the weekend with you.

Libra bosses are internally motivated, and expect you to be the same. They’re busy with their own projects and goals, and don’t necessarily check in—but that doesn’t mean you should slack. Even though Libras may seem like they don’t care about details or deadlines, they actually do. Even if they don’t complain to you, missed deadlines or typo-riddled projects will reflect poorly on you.

Even though he or she is superior in the workplace pecking order, your Libra boss sees you as an equal and expects you to act like one, including being your own manager.

Here’s how to ensure a smooth working relationship with your Libra boss:

Open up. Let them know about your hobbies, dreams, and aspirations. Libra loves to keep things as informal as possible in the office.

Handle their detail-oriented stuff. A Libra will love you if you offer to manage his or her spreadsheets.

Indulge in some gossip. Sure, it’s tricky to gossip at work, but letting your Libra boss in on some harmless intel (“Did you know that Jim in accounting moonlights in a rock band on weekends?”) will score major points.

Take initiative. Giving yourself your own projects that go outside the scope of your day-to-day routine will impress Libra.

Be playful. Jokes and a light office environment go a long way toward making your Libra boss happy.

What Success Means to a Libra

For Librans, doing well means being surrounded by great people who inspire and challenge them daily. That’s why this sign may forego a large paycheck to work in a field where they’re constantly surrounded by people. For Libra, friends are like family and coworkers are friends—and it’s the best of all worlds when Libra works with family or friends. That might look like becoming an entrepreneur and hiring people they know, or maybe working remotely to allow a seamless balance of work and home life. Even though Libra loves nice things, he or she considers that the icing on the cake, and will make all career and financial decisions based on overall quality of life.

Awakening the Inner Libra Raven

Although western astrology characterizes Libra by the inanimate Scales, this sign is most closely connected to the raven. This big black bird gets a bad rap in horror movies, but ravens are actually friendly, resourceful, and intelligent. Connecting to this creature can help Libra fully connect to his or her true self. Here’s how to access that inner corvid:

Socially engage. Libras are naturally social, but a bad mood will force them into retreat. Pushing themselves to connect, even when they don’t feel like it, can draw them out of a funk.

Count those blessings. Libras often think that life will be perfect once they achieve a certain goal or milestone. But just like the resourceful raven, looking around and taking stock of what they have right now can help them appreciate their life even more fully.

Sing. Although ravens are known for their squawks, they will actually sing to their mates and offspring. Doing the same can bring out Libra’s tender side.

Fly. A raven doesn’t stay in one place for long. Trying something new can help Libra break out of a bad mood.

Take a class. Libra loves to learn, but often puts lifelong learning on the back burner. Putting it front and center will remind this sign of their fierce intelligence, which is another thing that they share with the raven.

Libra Parent & Child

The Best Toys for a Libra Child

Musical instruments, scarves, and costumes. Dramatic, imaginative Libra loves creative, fantasy play, and can spend hours making up a new song or raiding their costume box.

The Best Activities for a Libra Child

Turn on the radio and dance, dance, dance. Libra loves rhythm, and loves dancing—especially with Mom and Dad.

Books Every Libra Child Must Read

Libra kids always look to the written word for meaning. They consider books their friends. These books will especially ignite a little Libra’s imagination:

Harold and the Purple Crayon by Crockett Johnson. The classic story of a boy who could draw anything with his purple crayon and make it come to life, this picture book celebrates the creativity all children—especially little Libras—have. (Bonus: there are seven books in this series.)

Matidla by Roald Dahl. This unforgettable novel about a little girl—who stands up against her unfair parents and schools with outsize intelligence, a curious mind, and some psychic ability—will speak to little Libra’s innate sense of justice.

Jane Eyre by Charlotte Bronte. Libra will swoon for Bronte’s romance, mystery, and sweeping language in this classic novel of love, kindness, and what it means to grow up and come into your own.

The Best Names for a Libra Child

Emotionally intelligent, artistic, and always happy to nurture relationships, Libras always want to make everyone happy. Whether you give your Libra baby a unique name or a popular name, trust that his or her personality will be memorable whatever he or she is called.

Names for Libra Boys: Trendsetting and trend-loving, Libra’s “the more, the merrier” personality is well suited for popular names. Think Jace, Chase, Mason, Brayden, Landon, and Aiden as jumping off points for Libra boys. Alternatively, worldly Libra loves learning new things and exploring new realms, so a name from your own heritage or a popular name from a country you adore—like Giovanni (Italy), Nuveen (India), or Abasi (Kenya)—will inspire your Libra boy for life.

Names for Libra Girls: Similar to her brother Libras, a Libra girl won’t have a problem being one of many Emmas in her class. Names that will click with her personality: Ava, Harper, Charlotte, Scarlett, and Mila. Or you can search popular names from other cultures: Ines (France), Rashmi (Sri Lanka), and Aoife (Ireland) can help your Libra girl fit in wherever her adventures take her.

How to Parent the Libra Child

Curious, imaginative, and often up for anything, Libra children love exploring the world around them. They’re happy to believe in fairies, elves, and trolls, and they’ll dig holes, climb trees, and look under bridges to find these creatures. They also adore meeting new kids, and are happy to call someone their friend even if they’ve only just met while waiting at the bottom of the slide. A Libra child goes with the flow, innately trusting and loving his or her guardians, depending on them to reveal the wonders of the world.

A Libra child can’t stand negativity, even from an early age. They may cry when they hear a raised voice, even if it’s just on the TV, and they sense when Mom or Dad is upset, which can cause them to be unhappy and clingy. Little Libras can be extra sensitive, and may need extra help to learn that just because someone told them “no,” it doesn’t mean that they aren’t loved or cherished.

As young Librans grow up, they may find themselves bristling against their parent’s rules, or disappointed to learn that their parents are just as complicated and flawed as everyone else. Even though a Libra is adept at seeing different perspectives, he or she may resent other people’s imperfections—and may use that against them. This sign believes in fairness and wants to make sure that they and their siblings are parented in exactly the same way—a different lunch or unequal amount of cookies will cause a temper tantrum.

Here are more tips for parenting a Libra child:

Let them get mad. Libras should know that it’s okay to get mad, and you still love them even when they’re angry. Practicing conflict with you will make it that much easier for them to effectively resolve conflicts with others.

Give them space and time to play. Libras are incredibly intelligent, but part of their early learning involves getting free range on the playground as well as structured movement activities. Letting them interact freely with their peers is invaluable to this little social butterfly.

Play music. Music calms, soothes, and inspires tiny Libras. Filling your home with a regular “soundtrack” is key to creating a harmonious environment for your Libra child.

All About the Libra Teenager

A Libra teenager believes in all forms of justice, from life at home through global geopolitics. Realizing that the world isn’t just or fair can bring them great anger or unhappiness. Channeling that sense of social justice, whether into creative pursuits, local activism, or volunteer work, can help. Libra teens are also incredibly interested in who their parents are as people, so being honest with them (especially about mistakes and missteps) can go a long way toward solidifying your connection.

Libra teenagers are intelligent. They’ll work hard when motivated, but they know that grades aren’t everything and won’t pursue an A if it means giving up their quality of life. Sleep, socializing, and downtime are all extremely important to the Libra teen, and they know that a balanced life is key to a happy life—something that their parents may need to learn from them.

A Libra teen loves art in all forms and may get seriously involved in the arts as he or she gets older. Watch them, cheer them on, but don’t crowd them or give them unsolicited advice. Art is how they express themselves, and crowding too closely could make them resentful.

A Libra teen likes:

Downtime: Although Libra loves socializing, guilt-free R&R time is essential for them to recharge. Have a phone curfew or ask them to stay home for a family game night—although they may initially grumble, they need it.

A signature look: Sure, all teens like experimenting with their looks, but Librans are all about owning their style, and they may spend hours trying on different outfit combinations.

Ritual: A Friday evening routine can make a Libra teen feel safe and protected.

A Libra teen dislikes:

Dishonesty: Did you dabble in bad behavior when you were a teen? Tell your Libra about it; they’ll find out anyway.

Criticism: This sign can be their own toughest critic, so be careful what you say to them.

Negativity: While arguments are a part of life, trying to keep raised voices to a minimum around Libra will lower his or her stress level.

The Libra Parent

Seeing the big picture from day one, the Libra parent does his or her best not to get overwhelmed by the details of parenting as he or she raises the next generation of independent thinkers and good people. Because Libras are so good at seeing and appreciating multiple perspectives and viewpoints, they realize that their child is a unique personality who may be very different than them. They try to be as careful as possible with their children’s feelings, giving them space to grow and providing loose (some might say “free range”) guardrails.

A Libra parent wants parenting to be fun, and will frequently try to make it as pleasant as possible. This could look like not sticking to a strict schedule, eating ice cream for dinner, or taking their child out of school for a week for a vacation. While intelligent Libra believes that school is important, he or she also believes that children can learn just as well from the world around them as they can from a book. Libra parents trust their instincts and intuition, and even though they love backing up their opinion by reading a million parenting books, blogs, and Facebook groups, they won’t second-guess the decisions they make about raising their kids.

A Libra parent does sometimes have to face the fact that parenting isn’t all sunshine and rainbows, and part of the job is modeling constructive engagement and conflict resolution. Helping their children understand their negative emotions and talk through bad feelings is a lifelong lesson for Libra parents.

How a Libra Can Be a Great Parent to Any Kid in the Zodiac

How does Libra’s personality mesh (or clash) with their offspring’s? Here’s how!

Libra Parent, Aries Child

Energetic and up for anything, Libra is in awe of Aries’ fire-sign surety, while Aries can learn from their Libra parent how to temper themselves, hold back, and entertain multiple opinions.

Libra Parent, Taurus Child

Libra parents love to cuddle their baby Bull, who loves the pampering. Libras can feel frustrated when their Taurus child is blunt with his or her feelings, but they can also learn from little Taureans about how to say and get what they want.

Libra Parent, Gemini Child

Playful, charming, and social, these two air signs bond over socializing and “get” each other in a way few sign pairs do. Gemini kids tend to swing wildly in one direction or another, and Libra parents can teach them about balance.

Libra Parent, Cancer Child

A Libra parent can tune into Cancer’s sensitivity without getting caught up in it, and can help little Cancers learn how to navigate and give voice to their conflicting emotions. Meanwhile, Cancer finds strength, stability, and an always-warm hug from his or her Libra parent.

Libra Parent, Leo Child

Libra parents love their Leo’s outspoken energy, and understand their innate desire for the spotlight. This duo bonds over the arts, and may clash when they both want attention from the rest of the family.

Libra Parent, Virgo Child

Libra parents see their Virgo children as wise beyond their years, and a large job of Libra parents is to help Virgo speak up and stand out from the crowd. Virgos can be shy as children, and Libra can understand that while also helping young Virgos to come out of their shell.

Libra Parent, Libra Child

This sign pairing understands each other—and also drive each other crazy with their indecisiveness. Both parent and child want to make the other happy, which can result in no one being happy. However, they can also work together toward learning to speak up for what they want.

Libra Parent, Scorpio Child

Libra parents just want everyone to get along, and a loud, passionate, opinionated Scorpio child can frustrate Libra. Scorpio can become more grounded by a Libra parent, but these two signs have epic clashes—that only make each other grow.

Libra Parent, Sagittarius Child

These adventurous, world-exploring signs are perfect matches. Librans tend to be more emotionally in tune with themselves, so modeling that for Sagittarius, along with an open invitation to discuss it, will keep this parent-child bond strong.

Libra Parent, Capricorn Child

Libra parents often scratch their heads watching their detail-oriented Capricorn carefully playing with blocks, and they may try too hard to mold their little Goat into what they want him or her to be. That’s why it’s key for Libra to learn how to step back and realize that Cap is content playing on the sidelines. Once they accept their Capricorn child’s cautious nature, the bond is strong.

Libra Parent, Aquarius Child

Intense and imaginative, Libra parents and Aquarius kids love playing make-believe and setting up play dates. Libra can help Aquarians tune into and discuss their emotions, which is key for maintaining a close bond as independent Aquarius grows older.

Libra Parent, Pisces Child

Both intuitive and empathetic, Libra parents and Pisces kids have an almost psychic connection. Sometimes, both signs can get a little too wrapped up in their own heads and expectations. That’s why it’s important for each one to learn how the other communicates, and having long, meandering talks in the car (rather than sitting down for focused discussions) are key.