Scorpio Zodiac Sign

Passionate, independent, and unafraid to blaze their own trail no matter what others think, Scorpios make a statement wherever they go. They love debates, aren’t afraid of controversy, and won’t back down from a debate. They also hate people who aren’t genuine, and are all about being authentic—even if authentic isn’t pretty.

Because of all of these traits, a Scorpio can seem intimidating and somewhat closed off to those who don’t know them well. But what people don’t realize is that even though Scorpio may seem brusque, as a water sign, they also are very in tune with their emotions, and sometimes may find themselves caught up in their feelings.

This leads to Scorpio’s central conflict: Their feelings are what drives them and strengthens them, but their mutability can scare them and make them feel vulnerable and out of control. Because of this conflict, Scorpios, like their namesake, the scorpion, put up an outer shell and may seem prickly.

But once people get beyond the shell, they find a loyal, loving person whose passion knows no bounds. Scorpio dives into all life has to offer with 110% enthusiasm. A Scorpio will be your most loyal friend, most dedicated employee—and your worst enemy, if they want to be.

In love, Scorpio can seem cautious at first, and may set up a series of “tests” for their potential partner, deciding to cross them off their list if they don’t meet their demands. The trouble is, they tend to keep their partner out of the loop on what, exactly, they want, making their partner feel like they have to play mind reader. If a Scorpio and their partner can get past this initial hurdle, the connection will be intense, in both highs and lows. A Scorpio will love harder and fight harder than any other sign, and wants their partner to be absolutely honest. They will be—even if it’s not what the partner wants to hear. In the bedroom, Scorpio is generous, imaginative, and always up for anything—all night long.

Scorpio’s Motto

“You never know what you are capable of until you try.”

Scorpios are amazing! Their name says it all:

S for seductive
C for cerebral
O for original
R for reactive
P for passionate
I for intuitive
O for outstanding

Scorpio’s Greatest Gifts

So many other signs spend valuable time and energy beating around the bush, desperately trying to find an approach that makes the fewest waves when it comes to confronting a conflict. Not Scorpio. Blessed with a deep sense of self, Scorpio is always able to say exactly what’s on their mind, even if it’s not what people want to hear. Scorpio is forthright and honest, and those two characteristics commandeer a ton of respect, both at home and at work.

Scorpio’s Greatest Challenges

Repeat after us: It’s all right to cry. Scorpio tries to hard to seem tough that they sometimes cut off their vulnerable side entirely, seeming prickly, uncaring, and cold to outsiders. While expressing emotion is scary, learning how to do it is key for Scorpio, since presenting an “I don’t care” veneer can only work for so long before it get’s exhausting!

Scorpio’s Secret Weapon

Their empathy. Also it may not seem this way at first glance, watchful Scorpio can read a room very quickly and can clue into how everyone else is feeling. Because of this, they can immediately tune into someone who needs TLC and often knows the right thing to say or do to change the mood or tener of a room when it needs to be changed.

The 5 Top Reasons to Love Being a Scorpio

1. Passionate and intense, your sign is sexy with a capital S. You don’t even have to try, and know sexy is an attitude you can present just as well in sweats as you can in stillettos.
2. You know what you want and go after it—no questions asked.
3. You don’t get intimidated easily, and stand up for injustice when you see it.
4. You have a unique sense of humor. You’re not afraid to say what other people are thinking, and your sometimes cynical take on the world is creative, smart, and funny as hell.
5. You’re passionate. When you decide to put your heart on full display, there’s no stopping you—which is why you should do it more often!

Classic (Famous) Scorpios

Ciara, Julia Roberts, Gabrielle Union, Matthew McConaughey, Drake, Ryan Reynolds, Katy Perry, Kris Jenner, Anne Hathaway, Ryan Gosling, Owen Wilson

Scorpio Friendship Compatibility

Scorpio’s Friendship Style

A Scorpio will tell you like it is, whether you want to know or not. The good news: You never have to worry about where you stand with a Scorpio; they will let you know. But you will have to realize that a Scorpio won’t BS you or lie to you—and they will absolutely let you know when you haven’t lived up to your potential. A Scorpio can be a friend for life, and can make you laugh harder, think deeper, and have more fun than you ever thought possible. So don’t be so sensitive and go along for the ride.

Best Friend Match for Scorpio: Aquarius

This water sign and air match are an ideal match, perfectly up for taking each other to task when necessary. The two signs are idealistic, passionate, and prefer the company of themselves rather than spending time with a person they deem toxic.

How to Make Friends with a Scorpio

Push the envelope. Tell them exactly what’s on your mind, especially if it’s unedited—even if it’s critical. Scorpio loves seeing what other people really think.

How to Stay Friends with a Scorpio

Check in on them. Scorpio can present a tough exterior (see the hard outer shell of a scorpion!) but they can get hurt easily, and sometimes have a tough time admitting vulnerability. Asking how they’re really feeling, and giving them the time and space to tell you, will make your connection strong for life.

3 Reasons Why Scorpio Make Great Friends

1. Scorpio keeps life interesting. They’re drawn to the deeper mysteries of existence, and will always push you to think harder and more intensely about issues than you ever have before.
2. Scorpio are incredibly loyal—which means not holding back if you’ve messed up or haven’t lived up to your potential. A Scorpio will make sure you’re always the best person you can be.
3. Daring Scorpio will push you to push your own limits, resulting in the funniest, most epic memories you’ll cherish for a lifetime.

Scorpio Love Compatibility

Scorpio’s Love Style

Rules by fiery Mars and destructive Pluto, Scorpio has one mode for relationships and that’s full-on. Scorpio loves romance and passion, including up-all-night fights. Scorpio never does anything halfway, and believes that true love comes with true fights.

Flirtatious, seductive, and mysterious, Scorpio loves playing hard to get initially, and may look like they never take the lead. This isn’t true, though. Scorpio can pull the strings, relying on body language and subconscious cues to make their potential partner do exactly what they want them to do. Scorpio loves the chase, and loves the drama and pageantry that comes with initial dates. They love going all out with outfits, reservations, and candles and truly want to be the best date you’ve ever had.

While Scorpio may seem like they’re well-versed in love, and they love seduction, they can be cautious when it comes to settling into an LTR. That’s because water sign Scorpio hides a lot of emotion underneath their surface, and when they open up to a significant other, they want it to be for life. When a Scorpio does let their guard down, it’s a big deal, and a sign they truly want the relationship to last.

Best Zodiac Love Matches for Scorpio

Cancer: Passionate and in tune with their emotions, Cancer and Scorpio can have an almost psychic connection, and Cancer’s innate understanding of Scorpio can help avoid any hurt feelings.

Aquarius: Both signs who are used to marching to the beat of their own drummer, cool Sagittarius can provide the pragmatism that Scorpio needs to diffuse some of their intense emotions.

Taurus: Grounded earth sign Taurus may initially seem too staid for intense Scorpio, but this match can last precisely because Taurus won’t get drawn into any drama.

Favorite Date Nights for Scorpio

Bring on the reservations, the candles, and the dimly lit cocktail bars, because Scorpio adores the glamour and intrigue that comes with first dates. To Scorpio wining and dining is an art, and they adore bringing their dates to places that make them feel like they’ve stumbled into an exotic country. To Scorpio, dating is all about letting go of the every day and getting lost in fantasy.

The Deal with Scorpio and Fire Signs

It’s common for water sign Scorpio to become downright obsessed with fire signs—the sign they aren’t supposed to go for. So why the attraction, and can it ever work?

Fire signs (Aries, Leo, Sagittarius) speak to Scorpio’s intense passion. But while fire signs are all intense energy, Scorpio has a well of emotion underneath—when Scorpio gets mad, they stay mad, unlike fire signs who can get over it seconds later. Scorpio and fire signs both seem similar on the surface, but often have trouble speaking each other’s language—fire signs communicate in actions, while Scorpio is all about emotion. The result? Tons of mixed messages, followed by a fiery breakup, maybe a temporary reunion, and an even more intense final goodbye.

But it can work! The trick is that each partner has to stop thinking their way is the “right” way, and stop trying to change their partner. Scorpio needs to step back and let some things roll off their back, and come up with coping mechanisms that don’t involve the silent treatment. Fire signs need to learn that emotions are real, even if you can’t see them. And together, these signs can create some serious sparks.

How to Seduce a Scorpio

If you have your eye on a Scorpio, be ready to be rejected at least once. It’s not you, it’s their sign. Deep down, strong Scorpio may have rejection fears of their own, and trying rejection on you is one way to make sure you’re serious about them. Here, how to make sure a Scorpio knows you truly want them and get them to fall for you.

Be funny. Scorpio loves independent thinkers, and a sarcastic quip or comment will go a long way in their book. The less you worry about looking “cool,” the better.

Have your own life. Scorpio is not interested in a codependent relationship and shies away from someone who seems like they “need” a romance to seem complete. Having a full life of friends, family, and hobbies makes it clear you want them in your life.

Own your intelligence. Scorpio has a soft spot for smarts, and loves when someone they like shows just how intelligent they are. Read the news, talk about books you’ve recently read, and strive to learn at least one new thing every day. It will drive a Scorpio wild.

How to Make Love to a Scorpio

Scorpio is known for being one of the most intensely sexual signs of the Zodiac, but don’t assume that means Scorpio is sex starved. For Scorpio, sex is to be savored, and they truly appreciate a partner who takes their time, learns what they like, and focuses on all senses to bring Scorpio to the next level of pleasure.

Scorpio believes sex is an all body and all mind event, so incorporate their mind. Scorpio is intrigued by BDSM because of the psychological component; playing with calling your partner sir or miss, or indulging in some role play goes a long way in bringing Scorpio over the edge.

Scorpio loves foreplay, which often begins during date night. A sidelong glance, whisper, or gentle caress speaks volumes. Make sure to worship a Scorpio’s body by touching it, complimenting it, and truly learning how it works and what pleases them, and they will return the favor.

If You Love a Scorpio Woman

Realize you will never truly know her. Scorpio women are mysterious, and it takes a lifetime for her to even understand herself. The worst thing you can do is try to pretend you know her better than she knows herself—it’s not true, and the statement will make her resent you. Give her space, let her breathe, and make it clear that no matter what happens, you’re her partner through the good and the bad, and you want to be by her side no matter what.

How to Communicate With a Scorpio Woman

Talk through the hard stuff. Scorpio’s intuition is finely tuned, so when something’s off in the relationship, she knows it. Pretending everything’s fine when you’re having problems will only drive a wedge between you both. You may feel like you’re dwelling on negativity, but practical Scorpio believes talking through things and being direct and pragmatic is key to a long and happy life together. Sweep things under the rug, and you’ll soon find yourself seeking the door.

If You Love a Scorpio Man

A Scorpio man may seem brusque and abrupt, and it may seem like he doesn’t care about you. Not true. Scorpio men care deeply about their partners, but also care deeply and are fiercely protective of themselves, and may be setting up barriers to avoid getting hurt. The best thing you can do is be direct and tell him how you feel. He takes honesty—even if it’s about something that you’re upset about or something that’s not going great—as a compliment, and would much prefer you tell him about an issue than pretend everything’s fine.

How to Communicate With a Scorpio Man

Put all your cards on the table. For a Scorpio man, passive-aggressive actions like the silent treatment (even though he’s been known to play it himself) make it seem like you don’t care about him. Making it clear that you’re sharing everything on your mind and in your heart, even if you don’t 100% know what you think, shows him that you’re all in.

Should You Marry a Scorpio?

Yes! Loyal, passionate, and funny as hell, a Scorpio is one of a kind. You’ll never laugh harder, fight harder, or be more in love than you are with a Scorpio. Is life intense? Yes. But you’ll soon realize you wouldn’t want it any other way.

3 Signs That Scorpio is Playing for Keeps

Scorpio may seem aloof and uncaring, but these three subtle signs show they want you in their life—and may just be ready to come out of their shell.

1. They talk about their childhood. Private Scorpio sometimes doesn’t share info about their past—even if it was happy—because that seems overly intimate. Once they share stories about their past, it’s a sign that they see you in their future.
2. They talk beliefs. Scorpio are seekers, and are innately in tune with the divine—whatever that means for them. But they won’t share their belief system with just anyone. Them opening up to you shows that they trust you.
3. They apologize first. Apologies are tough for Scorpio, even though they know they can sometimes have a tendency to fly off the handle. If they admit they’re wrong, it’s a big step in trying to compromise and trying to make you happy.

Scorpio Relationship Red Flags

Let’s get one thing straight: Scorpio cares a lot. So when they talk through a relationship issue for hours on end (which they will, even for minor stuff like the way you leave the toilet paper roll) it’s a sign they care. When they don’t talk or walk away from a fight? It’s a sign they’re just not invested.

Another red flag? When Scorpio fails to keep your feeling in account. Scorpio is incredibly in tune with emotions, so if they find themselves not checking in with you, saying something hurtful without apologizing, or seeming callous about how you may be feeling, it’s a big sign that Scorpio is on their way out.

How Scorpio Deals With a Broken Heart

Deep down, Scorpio loves the cleansing feeling that comes with totally feeling the agony of a broken heart. Of course, Scorpio would rather not deal with a break up in the first place, but when they face one, they do it right. They cry, they play sad music, they allow themselves to wallow in bed—they feel all the feelings.

And then, they get over it, and may be out flirting with other people, seeming fine the next week. Scorpio knows it takes a long time for their heart to truly mend, but their motto when it comes to breakups is feel the feelings … then fake it until you make it.

The Scorpio Lifestyle

For the Scorpio in Your Life

Best gifts: A beautiful scarf, a candle, or some essential oils. Scorpios love accessories that elevate all of their senses.

Best spa package: Reiki. Sure, it’s not exactly a spa treatment, but Scorpio, with their genuine interest in the metaphysical love that a treatment doesn’t require touch to be effective, and love the way reiki allows them to tune into themselves while getting attuned.

Best Cocktail: Malbec, or any other rich, deep, red wine. Scorpio can’t resist a deep red wine, preferably sipped with a lover.

How Scorpio Unwinds

Unwhat? Scorpio is always on, always watchful, and always have the wheels in their mind turning. Scorpio love art—the more intense and boundary-pushing, the better—and adore meeting new people, especially if they can rise to the challenge of sparring with them. Scorpio does crave alone time, and finds that hiking, journaling, or going to a moody bar or restaurant by themselves and having a conversation with a stranger can help them connect to their true selves.

Scorpio’s Social Life

Scorpio has the pick of who to hang out with, and everyone is entranced, captivated, and—ok, a little afraid—of them. Scorpio tends to do their own thing, and isn’t pulled by peer pressure. Scorpio adores fine wine, fancy restaurants, and A-list access, and loves getting a behind-the-scenes look into a party. Because of this, they tend to make friends with artists, chefs, and other people who set the pulse of a city. In addition, they are often the pulse of a city, and find that a job that can combine their social life and real life is often ideal.

Scorpio’s Favorite Season

Their birthdays are in late fall, and Scorpio loves cold snaps, dusky weather, and long, dark nights just made for cuddling up on sensuous sheets. Scorpio adores evening, and adores long nights that last well into the wee hours. Scorpio also isn’t afraid of a cold snap—they’re happy to be out in all elements, and love the wild and sexy unpredictability of a raging winter storm.

The Best Vacations for Scorpio

Scorpio love going places where no one else has gone before, and is all about exclusive, intimate tours of foreign cities. They love meeting locals, and have a special charm and knack for getting introduced to VIPs in whatever city they’re in—even if they’re only visiting for 24 hours. Scorpio bypasses the so-called tourist attractions in favor of small boutiques, insider-only restaurants, and other experiences they deem authentic.

Scorpio’s Power Colors

Confident, in control, and the center of attention in all situations, Scorpio can use different colors to enhance their already prodigious natural gifts. Colors that inspire Scorpio include:

Red: This fiery color speaks to Scorpio’s innate intensity, and also highlights their passion—when they love something, they love it.

Mauve: Purple, the color of royals, speaks to the majestic way Scorpio carries themselves.

Blue: Even though they’re fiery, it’s important to remember that Scorpio is a water sign. The blue speaks to their mutable emotions and can channel their empathy and understanding.

Gray: Silver and changing, like the moon, a grayish-silver hue speaks to the shifting intensity in Scorpio’s internal emotional landscape.

These are the colors that Scorpio should avoid:

Yellow: This bright, one-tone color screams sunny optimism, when Scorpio is known for seeing all sides of a situation.

Green: Scorpio is more drawn to brown earth tones—think, the trunk of a tree rather than the leaves. Green can be too one-dimensional for complicated Scorpio.

Orange: This color is often given to those in the spotlight, and while Scorpio naturally draws attention, they don’t necessarily seek it out.

Scorpio Health & Wellness

Scorpio’s Ailments: UTI’s and other below-the-belt issues
Scorpio’s Strengths: Passion
Scorpio’s Weaknesses: Intense workout classes. Scorpio can be almost masochistic when it comes to exercise, and loves working out harder, longer, and faster than anyone else.

The Best Fitness Routines for Scorpio

Boxing. Whether it’s getting in the ring or just taking classes, you thrive on breaking a sweat and, bonus, can simultaneously get rid of frustrations that are plaguing you.

About Those Scorpio Below the Belt Issues

For Scorpio, their sex organs are one of their biggest joys and biggest headaches. Scorpio sees sex as a union of the mind and body, and when they’re not feeling fully in tune with themselves or a relationship, they’re likely to feel less than great below the belt. The upside is that Scorpio has learned that absolute honesty—in and out of the bedroom—can help feel them as healthy as they can be. Scorpio won’t lie or cheat—the sex won’t be enjoyable, and it’s just not worth it. The more honest they are with themselves, the more happy their parts will be!

The Top 10 Ways Scorpio Can Beat the Blues

Let’s be honest: Sometimes Scorpio wants to feel down in the dumps. But when it’s time to rise to the top—something Scorpio is so good at—they have the tools and skills to do so. Here’s how.

1. Light candles. Nothing like a ritual for intense Scorpio.
2. Read a sad novel. Nothing like Anna Karenina to make you realize your life isn’t so bad.
3. Have a one-on-one with a friend. It’s okay to cry if you’ve got the right shoulder to cry on.
4. Yell. Doesn’t have to be at someone, but even in the shower can be very cathartic.
5. Taking a yoga class. The sweat is just as cathartic as the tears.
6. Have sex. Nothing like an orgasm to wipe the emotion slate clean.
7. Clean. Scorpio loves a clean, organized home, and diving into organizing can help them get past their own problems.
8. Try a new look. Dark lipstick can match a dark mood, but can make Scorpio feel so much brighter.
9. Listen to live music. Scorpio loves music, and listening to live music buoys their mood like nothing else
10. Go for a drive. Driving on back roads to nowhere can help Scorpio center themselves.

Healing Herbs for Scorpio’s roller coaster emotions:

Aloe vera: Can soothe Scorpio’s intensity and remind them to cool down!

Raspberry leaf: Connects to the reproductive organs to help them calm down (especially if a female Scorpio is suffering from cramps) and can help soothe any nerves.

Ginger: Spicy and intense, adding ginger to a recipe or using as a supplement can help calm Scorpio’s anxiety.

Coriander: used often in love spells, this herb can help Scorpio tune into their passion and make sure their passion is being directed toward good.

Scorpio Spirituality

The Best Crystals for Scorpio: Citrine can help calm Scorpio, help them see the glass half full, and help them find and explore positive solutions to a proble.

Scorpio’s Healing Mantra: “My passion is my path to my soul.”

Scorpio’s Spirit Color: This passionate sign adores purple, a majestic color that speaks to Scorpio’s passionate intensity.

Scorpio’s Spiritual Side

Scorpio is intense, passionate, and will never do ritual just for ritual sake. A Scorpio has to truly believe in something to commit to it, and when they do, they commit 100%. Many Scorpio find themselves as spiritual leaders, as other people admire their commitment to dogma. Scorpio believes that religion and spirituality can be passionate and intense, and wants to “feel” their spirituality. For Scorpio, spirituality is a full-body experience, and often, Scorpio finds spiritual intensity through intense physical exercise or a physical experience. Scorpio believes in breaking boundaries and will often pick and choose from different spiritual and religious teachings to find the one that’s most meaningful to them.

Scorpio’s Karma Boosters

Every sign has to deal with unfinished business. For Scorpio, the biggest life lesson is learning how to temper their passion and choose a middle way. This can take a lifetime, but Scorpio has to start somewhere. Here are a few first steps that any Scorpio can take towards clearing their karma:

1. Take a day off. You tend to go all or nothing, and see a day off as a sign of failure. But try it sometime—it feels good.
2. Hold your tongue. You like everything to be perfect, and can’t help sharing criticism. But hold off next time. Things don’t have to be perfect to be good—promise.
3. Netflix and chill. Cuddling and more on the couch with your partner can be just as yummy as whips, chains, and candles. Promise.
4. Do something you hate because someone else loves it. Outdoors not your thing? Suggest going on a hike to a friend who loves it. The point isn’t quashing your own desires, just making room for other people’s opinions.
5. Try pastels. You’re automatically drawn to fiery colors, but choosing more temperate hues can also temper your all-or-nothing personality. Promise!

Scorpio Career, Money & Success

Scorpio’s Career Mantra: “Perfection is power.”

Scorpio’s greatest career strength: Intensity. Scorpio is much happier leading the pack or providing an authentic opinion than being a team player. When Scorpio goes in, they go all in.

Scorpio’s greatest career challenge: Politics. Scorpio has no interest in playing the game, they’re interested in playing to win, and don’t care whose toes they step on to do so.

Scorpio’s Work Style

Scorpio is all about burning the candle at both ends—when they’re passionate about a project. It can take a few false starts for Scorpio to find their footing, and when Scorpio doesn’t like the team they’re on at work, watch out. Scorpio would much rather do the work solo than attempt to work with people they feel don’t bring anything to the table.

Scorpio are fiercely intelligent and amazing multi taskers, so they thrive at being entrepreneurs. Scorpio is committed, and can see a project through to a final vision. Scorpio needs independence and trust to pull off a project, and hates having someone else look over their shoulder.

Scorpio can be a demanding boss, but can also be one that employees love. They are fair, exacting, and want their employees to be the best they can be. They’re great at spotting and nurturing talent, and inspire people to work their hardest.

Scorpio’s Dream Careers

Tech entrepreneur: Scorpio loves technology, and has a big-picture vision and technical skills to match. Scorpio isn’t afraid of long hours and also loves the big reward that may come with working in tech.

Film director: Perfectionist Scorpio loves having their hands in all aspects of a production, and usually has an artistic vision they can manifest through film.

Restaurateur: Scorpio is a foodie, and loves everything that goes into a restaurant, including the ambiance, the wine list, and of course, the menu. Scorpio also loves schmoozing, and being in a see-and-be-seen restaurant is a Scorpio dream.

Agent: Whether it’s sports or film, Scorpio is good at speaking up and asking for the best deal. They’re also great at reading through contracts, negotiating, and enjoying the limelight. Scorpio much prefers to be behind the scenes and is happy to think big picture when it comes to a client’s career, especially since they know that they’re the ones who are really pulling all the strings and holding all the power.

Spy: Secretive, intelligent, and willing to play their cards close to their chest, Scorpio makes an excellent spy. Scorpio loves the intrigue, but also isn’t afraid to push up their sleeves and get to work.

Scorpio and Money

Scorpio has a complicated relationship with money. Their intelligence and street smarts means they make money easily, but their love of luxury means that it’s also easily spent. Scorpio can get frustrated because they know what they “should” be doing with their cash, but sometimes have a hard time having enough discipline to follow through. Scorpio can get jealous when others have more than they have, especially if they perceive the person who has it isn’t as intelligent or hardworking as them. The more Scorpio takes charge of their money, including proactively investing, the better they’ll feel.

If You Work for a Scorpio Boss

Repeat after us: It’s not personal. A Scorpio boss might make you cry or feel like sh*t. They aren’t doing it because they’re out to get you. A Scorpio boss looks at work product much more than personality, and doesn’t put a lot of stock in personal connections. IF you work hard, a Scorpio boss likes you. No politics here. Here’s more about what they’re like:

Street Smart. The Scorpio boss doesn’t get involved in work politics, but seems to know everything going on. That’s because they listen and observe, but don’t gossip. Take a hint from them!

On their own timeline. Scorpio gets things done, but don’t take a lot of stock in a nine to five schedule. Get it done, and your time is yours.

Intense. Scorpio doesn’t believe raised voices or tears should be verboten at the office. They’re a sign of passion. But once you have an outburst, Scorpio expects you to get back to work—they don’t like grudges.

Idealistic. Scorpio believes in a more perfect world (and more perfect product) and pushes their employees to demand the same.

Nitpicky. A misplaced comma may seem like NBD, but to a Scorpio, it’s a sign that you don’t respect the job.

What Success Means to a Scorpio

Scorpio thrives on perfection, and for a Scorpio, a job well done isn’t well done until they think it is. Scorpio has a lot of grand plans, and gets frustrated when thwarted by a higher up. Success for a Scorpio is living a life and having a career on their own terms. A Scorpio could be making a lot of money and in a position of power, but if they don’t feel they have control, or feel they have a boss or a board breathing down their neck, they won’t be happy. Scorpio also needs creativity and time to breathe in their day—if all Scorpio is doing is pushing papers or crunching numbers, they won’t be happy. Scorpio needs some outlet to do things “their” way to feel personally fulfilled.

Awakening the Inner Scorpio Phoenix

People think of Scorpio and think scorpion. But one of Scorpio’s powerful animal totems is the phoenix—the bird who emerges from the ashes of destruction and toward a new and more perfect world. Here, how to awaken the inner Scorpio phoenix.

Feel the fear and do it anyway: Going into a situation that’s scary—even a roller-coaster—and emerging from it is all about showing Scorpio’s resiliency. Afraid of heights? Time to sign up for skydiving lessons.

Wear red: Incorporate red into your wardrobe and wear it on the days when you feel most vulnerable.

Cry: Scorpio tries to hide their vulnerability, even though they’re quite sensitive. Learning to cry and show emotions in front of people is a key Scorpio talent that can only make you stronger.

Go back and forgive. Had a terrible breakup? Have a face to face convo with the person who broke your heart. For Scorpio, these scary encounters only make them feel stronger and more resilient.

All of the above are especially powerful in a month that manifests a full moon in Scorpio!

Scorpio Parent & Child

The Best Toys for a Scorpio Child

Dolls and stuffed animals. Scorpio loves imagining and leading a team of plushed adventurers, and find that dolls and stuffed animals are safe “people” to share their emotions with.

The Best Activities for a Scorpio Child

Scorpio loves a complex world of make-believe, which can sometimes get too intense, especially when other children are involved. Plenty of art projects, crayons, and blank paper sets the stage to allow Scorpio to let their copious creativity loose.

Books Every Scorpio Child Must Read

Fair, rational, and always looking for the “why” behind something, Scorpio kids are drawn to stories that help them understand society, as well as understand natural phenomena in the world. Some examples:

A Hundred Billion Trillion Stars, Seth Fishman. Scorpio kids will marvel at just how large the universe is, and love this whimsical kids book that allows them to believe in the miracle of science.

Not Quite Narwhal, Jesse Sima. A picture book of a unicorn being raised beneath the sea by a family of narwhals, this book speaks to Scorpio kids who sometimes may not fit in with their family.

A Series of Unfortunate Events, Lemony Snicket. Scorpio tweens will love this tongue-in-cheek classic about an orphan’s adventure, which doesn’t speak down to kids while allowing them full range of their imagination.

The Best Names for a Scorpio Child

Mysterious, emotional, and fiercely intelligent, even the smallest Scorpios have huge personalities and can carry a huge name to match. Choosing a name that speaks to Scorpio’s passionate side is key. Nature-inspired names can be a great match for this sign.

Names for Scorpio Boys: Fiery Scorpio deserves a fiery name to match. Blaze is a great option. Or look straight to nature: Thorn, Wolf, Tiger, or Ridge will all match the energy of your little boy.

Names for Scorpio Girls: Tempest and Colt are name options that will match your little Scorpio’s can’t-be-tamed spirit. Or look to flowers: Magnolia, Daisy, Rose, and Willow are all ways to honor the softer side of a Scorpio girl’s wild nature.

How to Parent the Scorpio Child

Sensitive and intense, a Scorpio child can seem high needs from day one, and may need extra cuddles and closeness. A Scorpio child always marches to the beat of their own drummer, and many outsiders may remark how a Scorpio kids seems especially wise or knowing beyond their years.

Scorpio children may have tantrums, but it’s very important to realize they’re lashing out because they love you and because they feel safe to do so. Many parents of Scorpio kids swear by the book No Bad Kids, by Janet Lansbury to help them navigate their Scorpio’s emotional surges.

Scorpio can sometimes need help learning to play and seeing the silly side of life. Surrounding them with projects where there is no right or wrong, like gardening, can be helpful. And Scorpio loves to feel useful, so get them involved in baking, cooking, and laundry folding. Here, more tips for parenting a Scorpio child.

Take deep breaths. Patience is everything when it comes to raising a Scorpio. They will challenge you and break boundaries, and what they need is a calm Mom and Dad who won’t yell at them after the smallest infraction.

Give them space. A Scorpio needs plenty of solo time, and playing on the floor by themselves isn’t a lonely activity for a Scorpio. They have a rich internal world, and sometimes, your attempts at joining in feel like interrupting.

Arrange playdates. While Scorpio loves doing things solo, it’s important for them to learn how to get along with others. For only children Scorpio, being surrounded by a posse of kids who have brother/sister like bonds can be key in teaching tolerance, respect, and learning to get along in a group.

All About the Scorpio Teenager

Yes, Scorpio teens can be moody and intense. But don’t fear! A Scorpio teenager can also be deeply intuitive and passionate, and willing to take on adult responsibilities. A Scorpio teenager hates when parents don’t treat them like an equal, and can be incredibly responsible and conscientious. The best thing you can do for a Scorpio teenager is get out of their own way and let them forge their own path. Trouble happens when a Scorpio teen bristles under too many rules. Talk consequences and be honest. Do you want them to have a 10pm curfew? Explain reasons, not skirting around the fact more fatalities occur during late night driving. The more to the point you are, the more they’ll respect you.

A Scorpio teenager may need an outside adult, including a therapist, to help them sort through their feelings. Emotional health is a sign of strength, so if your Scorpio teen does ask for this, take them seriously. They hate being told they’re “dramatic.” Their emotions are real to them, and respecting them is key for a mutually respectful connection.

A Scorpio teen likes:

Responsibility: Let them handle something major, and you’ll be surprised.

Privacy: Do not read their phone messages or social media. If you must look at it, give them a heads up first.

Philantrophy: A Scorpio teen is deeply philanthropic, and may spend a lot of time working with those less fortunate.

A Scorpio teen dislikes:

Family bonding: They love hanging out with family, but not in a prescribed way. Family fun night? No thanks.

A parent who knows better: Be honest when you don’t know something and make it clear you’re all figuring it out together.

School spirit: They may like school as an intellectual pursuit, but may not be fond of the trappings of high school, including pep rallies and school spirit days.

Scorpio as Parents

How does a Scorpio’s personality mesh (or clash) with their offspring’s? Here’s how any Scorpio be an amazing parent to any kid in the zodiac:

Scorpio Parent, Aries Child

Adventurous Aries is brave and bold, which Scorpio parents admire. Scorpio parents love exploring the world with their Aries kids and admire Aries intellectual side, too.

Scorpio Parent, Taurus Child

A Scorpio parent can be exasperated with Taurus, especially since Taurus needs cuddles more than Scorpio ever did. Scorpio may wish Taurus could be a bit more independent, but also loves Taurus’s unwavering commitment to their beliefs.

Scorpio Parent, Gemini Child

Imaginative and adventurous, Scorpio loves little Gemini, but may find their penchant for drama annoying (which is ironic!) Scorpio may not understand Gemini, but the more they can let Gemini go with the flow, the better.

Scorpio Parent, Cancer Child

Both water signs, Scorpio intuitively understands Cancer in an almost psychic way, but wishes Cancer could be a bit more resilient. Cancer kids can learn a lot from their confident Scorpio parents.

Scorpio Parent, Leo Child

A little Leo’s fiery intensity seems like it’s a match for Scorpio’s passion, but the two signs can lock horns … er, claws. The more each sign lets the other feel their feelings, no matter how “silly” they may seem to the other, the better for both.

Scorpio Parent, Virgo Child

A Virgo child is observant and careful, while a Scorpio parent may wish their Virgo get out and make their opinions known. The two signs agree on art and love watching movies cuddled on the couch together.

Scorpio Parent, Libra Child

A Scorpio parent may have to tame their intensity at first for little Libra, who only wants everyone to be happy. A Scorpio parent can serve as a great role model to little Libra, but they need to be careful about making sure a Libra isn’t doing something just to make their Scorpio parent happy.

Scorpio Parent, Scorpio Child

You understand each other better than anyone, and because of that, can drive each other nuts. A Scorpio parent can successfully parent their Scorpio child when they realize that, even though they may seem similar, their Scorpio child is their own person with their own needs, desires, and passions.

Scorpio Parent, Sagittarius Child

Scorpio parents can make Sagittarius kids care about the world at large, and make them ask the tough questions. These two signs love engaging in the world at large, and aren’t afraid to tackle life’s tough questions together.

Scorpio Parent, Capricorn Child

Scorpio parents can learn from practical Capricorn kids. Meanwhile, Capricorn kids can get a lot of insight into the power of passion, persuasion, and following your gut from a Scorpio mom or dad.

Scorpio Parent, Aquarius Child

A Scorpio parent should let their social butterfly Aquarius kid take the lead. An Aquarius kid may never tell you exactly what you’re thinking, and Scorpio parents can do well to let their Aquarius kids be a little mysterious. An Aquarius doesn’t need to share everything to be close to a Scorpio parent.

Scorpio Parent, Pisces Child

Both water signs, a Scorpio parent understands the range of emotions a Pisces kid feels.Both signs can be so wrapped up in how they feel, they may miss a middle ground. Communicating, checking in, and occasionally sacrificing your own feelings for the sake of your little fish is key for parent-child harmony.